I'm really struggling to understand how CMS works.. and hoping someone can help me out.
My ex pays me a fixed and minimal amount of CM for DC. It's not changed in years despite his earnings having increased considerably (or at least his life style makes it look that way). I feel this is really unfair so am considering going via CMS. He's told me I'll get even less than I do now because his wife's child and their mutual child live with him.
DC spends less than 50 nights a year with ex, and his wife's DC splits his time 50/50 between them & her ex. Their mutual child lives with them.
Having read all of the guidance on CMS it seems other children are (amazingly) taken into account - why this would be the case when they have their own parents I can't understand. I'm still however totally confused about how other children factor in any payment assessed.
Looking at the guidance it seems possible my payments would be reduced for both children even though one is only there 50% of the time and reduced for the minimal time DC spends with my ex. I really struggle to believe it is possible that they'd reduce what he has to pay me because a child is the household when they aren't his (and are supported financially by both their own parents) and only lives 50% of the time in the same house? Surely if my payment gets reduced for time DC spends with ex it stands to reason to recognize the pattern other kids have?? .
I hope this all makes sense, I am so confused by it all I don't know if I'm explaining properly! Thanks in advance to anyone who can clear this up for me :-)
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Pinkyxx · 08/04/2021 18:11
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