First Sex on the cards since ex left 16 months ago feeling nervous!!!!!!!

[GEM33]

So this is a light hearted post for anyone who has been left by the father of their child/Ren and is feeling like I used to not so long ago and wondering how the hell you get through the rest of your life...minute by minute, day by day....

. So dd age 3 her dad left and I was devastated. I'm still not completely over him and I'm so not ready for a relationship(I don't want my precious time taken from my child and myself!) however, someone I know I can trust has offered me some "relief" as I've had no male companionship for a looooong time.

Feeling terrified!!!! No other man (apart from my child's dad who I was with for 7 years) has seen my post child body....thinking of chickening out but then again it might boost my ego!!

Time to get back on the bike?

[justjuanmorebeer]

I was terrified. So nervous about my body and bits as my new bf does not have children either. Turns out I had NOTHING to worry about and he loves my body so much more than my stupid ex ever did. Enjoy yourself.

[sumoweeble]

Good luck! Sounds like fun to me.

[GEM33]

Ahaha pedal til I pass out lol.... He's younger than the girl my ex dumped me for and gorgeous!!! I think I might pass out!! Lights will be off for sure still losing the baby and eating pizza coz I was miserable weight haha

[IMurderedStampyLongnose]

Just do it!Have fun and be safe,you sound like you deserve a bit of fun

[Ladymoods]

Get back on it and pedal until you are ready to pass out.

Have fun!