AIBU to laugh at the half naked men on POF?

[crace]

Ok, I know this isn't AIBU.. but seriously.. those pictures are hysterical! Would you ever go for someone when they post just pictures of them in their pants?!

I got a lovely message from a hairychestedone..something - including pics of said hairy chest in his drawers... Delete.

[QueenandKingMum]

Wow, that's great!

[luceeloo]

Thanks! Didnt see the film we planned to but saw a gangster film - meant I needed someone tall n strong to hide behind . 4th date Tuesday!

[JaquiChan]

yay, good luck, keep us posted.

[QueenandKingMum]

Woohoo Lucee.. good luck

[luceeloo]

phwoarrr what a stunner!! How are things ladies? Dont fight over him now! Off on 3rd date tonight, got school girl butterflies!

[QueenandKingMum]

PSML - no exactly, I don't dare!! He would think I was interested then.. EEK

[JaquiChan]

laid back, of course he is, he would struggle to upright. I couldn't bring myself to read his profile, however he will now see that we viewed him, god help either of us if he messages .

[QueenandKingMum]

Apparently "laid back" lol

[JaquiChan]

Queen, for once in my life I am ...want some fun?!?!!

[QueenandKingMum]

Phwar... get a load of theonlyactionman

[QueenandKingMum]

Lucee - that's lovely!

Horribly, he's really very very nice, it's just not for me. Not my type, too geekish if that makes sense. He's lovely, just.. no...

Juanners... great! Because married men are what you are looking for.

[JaquiChan]

ladies....I have another top off man.....juanners...wants talk/email and yep, you guessed it..married .

[luceeloo]

Well last night had our second date. Went to his, he cooked, cuddled up with a DVD, had hmm 200 kisses maybe and he walked me home at 2am. He's amazing and can't wait to see him again on Wednesday :)

Queen- how did you get on ? Details!

[JaquiChan]

lucee, I think it's too soon as well, not matter how long you have been emailing/texting/talking him, his flatmate and gf are strangers to you. I would just err on the side of caution for a while. Surely if it's a second date he would want you all to himself to get to know you better.

[luceeloo]

Sorry not just the two of us, his flat mate and gf will be there too

[QueenandKingMum]

Agreed here too lucee, you just never know do you? I'd wait if you can until you know him a bit better and meet some friends/family?

I'm sure he will understand!

[BooBooGlass]

Imo, that is way too soon to be going to his house. There's no reason he can't take you out to dinner and tbh, though I may be overcautious, it would ring alarm bells for me that he wanted to get you alone so quickly. Even though I met my dp on the internet, we still kept it in public for the first 2 or 3 weeks, after I met his friends I was more than happy to have him to my house (because I hadn't a babysitter, and also I felt 'safer' in my own home iyswim).

[luceeloo]

Is it too much too soon to go to his place on Saturday (2min drive from me literally) for dinner? Baring in mind first date was just yesterday...I haven't dated anyone for nearly 4years. What's standard etiquette here?!

[QueenandKingMum]

Fantastic! You must be thrilled x

[luceeloo]

Sounds lovely you'll look gorgeous Make sure you come back straight after and report! Second date in the pipeline for Tuesday this end x

[QueenandKingMum]

Yes, suppose it's worth a go! And I need to get out...

Thought about skirt, calf length boots (flats), flattering top/cardi and light make up.

That's dressy for me, so don't want to go over board!

[luceeloo]

Go for it on Saturday. He may turn out to be loads better than school-gate-dad. What you gonna wear?!

[QueenandKingMum]

Have namechanged (poster above) as I realised I've got a local friend on MN. Hopefully they will be deleting that for me, ASAP (please please). I'm a moron.

[luceeloo]

hi crace - yeah him! On a high this am but stopping myself getting carried away, it's hard!

Saturday sounds exciting! Looking forward to it?