NY schools

[bambiandthumper]

Hi everyone, just joined in the hope you can provide me with some advice!

DH's job is moving us to New York around May/June next year, so we need to find schools for our 3 year old twins (DS and DD) to start at in September. I understand that they will need Kindergarten places, and that it is crazy competitive over there.
At the moment the DT's are in the Nursery section of a central London Girls Prep (the Pre-Prep section is Co-ed), DD was going to stay on and DS would leave at 7+ with the rest of the boys. What I think I am trying to say is that we are happy with Single Sex, though I guess Co-Ed would be good from a practical sense!
We will be living in Manhattan (looking at the Upper East Side and Tribeca), and will go Independent. In the New Year we will pop over to have a proper look at apartments and schools, but I wanted to get any opinions anyone had on the schools we are considering (thus far), and if we had left any off:

Girls:
Spence
Chapin
Nightengale Bamford
Convent of the Sacred Heart

Boys:
Collegiate
St Bernards
Buckley

CoEd:
Dalton

We will also need to get DD2's (6 months) name down for a nursery at some point, so any recomendation's there would be most welcome!

[mathanxiety]

schools.nyc.gov/ChoicesEnrollment/PreK/default.htm

You're better off posting a new thread of your own as the original is really old and not many will bother reading through when they notice that..

[user1473871631]

Advice on Pre K system in New York schools
Has anyone applied for the Pre K system? My son is 4.5 years old. Does it only apply to the State sector and does it mean the education is completely free?
Thanks!

[bambiandthumper]

I think if we end up on the UES the DC's go will go to school up there as it is far easier travel wise. Also I think it would be nice if we can continue to walk to school, but that isn't a deciding factor.

Alarkaspree, that is very useful as if we do find we love Tribeca I would have no idea where to start looking at schools!

We are visiting in early Feb, so I will definitely pm you if we decide Tribeca is the way to go.

[alarkaspree]

Bambi my children go to this school in the financial district. They are very very happy there.

It's a relatively new school so they are still expanding. So entry is not nearly so competitive as the older private schools. But although there are a number of Upper East Side families there it obviously wouldn't be the most convenient option for you if that's where you plan to live. Worth a look if you like Tribeca though.

I don't really know much about other Manhattan private schools I'm afraid, because the timing of our move meant that we were too late for the normal application timetable and we only looked at schools that had spaces. We have friends with kids at PS 89 and 234 who are all happy, they are crowded though and you almost certainly wouldn't get a pre-K (reception age) place.

[midtowner]

I'm sorry Bambia, I didn't get back to you did I (your post on the other thread reminded me). My friends who have a child at Nightingale are very happy with it academically, but from they have said there are a lot of incredibly rich people there and there can be pressure to fit in (though that shouldn't apply to little ones like yours - their child is pre-teen). I don't know much about pre-schools, which are pre-K here, and have not had to go through the entry process.

One thing I would say is that, as NYC is such an international city with people coming and going all the time, you might get lucky.

I will try to think of anyone else to ask on your behalf.

[said]

Ha ha - me too at being hooked on Urban Baby. People are so rude .

[pooka]

I do think that moving to NYC sounds like a fantastic adventure. Love love love the place. Alas DH works for very settled family firm (his family). So no chance

[pooka]

I'm hooked. People are so forthright.

[pooka]

No! No not moving. But find it fascinating to compare UK/NY. Mumsnet/UB. So many of the same sort of threads (clothes/mothers in law) but way more about household income, donations to private schools, whether a 3 year old is "connected".

I'm thinking though that UB not representative of the majority of New Yorkers. :)

[bambiandthumper]

Oh urbanbaby.com, its horrific isn't it.

[bambiandthumper]

Hi pooka, are you another one who's moving out then?

[pooka]

Oh my god. Have just been sucked into urban baby. It is insane. I thought school stress was bad enough here. The competitiveness and bitchiness about pre-school admissions! Unbelievable. But so addictive as a site.

[bambiandthumper]

I'm on my iphone, and haven't worked out how to do links yet on it, but I have found the NY magazine website in terms of general information. It has a good section on real estate and sections on education, culture ect..

I have just looked at Southeby's real estate, I know DH has looked at more but neither of us can remember which one.

[cityangel]

cool will be following closely any feedback would be great.

Any tips on sites to look for rentals Google is a minfield and the corporate real estate people are behind the curve

[bambiandthumper]

Hi midtowner and cityangel!! :)

Cityangel- We are going out to look at apartments and pre-schools in February. After looking online and talking to a few friends and people we have been put in touch with who live over there, we have pretty much decided that the UES will be the best fit for us, in terms of schools and what we can get for our budget. We are also going to have a look at Tribeca though, so we can get a different 'feel', though I think DH prefers the UES. We are arranged to look around All Souls, 92nd Y, Episcopal and Brick Church, though last night I had a look on Urban baby (only do so after a strict drink), and I think I will have to do a bit more googling!

Midtowner - How are your friends finding Nightingale? This was on my list for the DD's when I thought the DT's would be starting school next year as they would be in England . And do you have any recommendations for preschools? We have definitely decided to go for Manhattan, we currently live in London and love it, and if we decide we need more space we can always move out later, though I don't think we will be there long enough at the moment, but who knows!

[midtowner]

I live on Manhattan, but my children are older so I don't know much about pre-K/K. People I know have children at the UN school, British School (both a long way from the UES), Dwight and Nightingale, but again they are all older than yours. I've heard people with little kids talk about pre-Schools of America, but that sounds more like a full time nursery (these are working parents) than a school if that makes sense.

The one thing I would say is that there are other places to live in New York - e.g. Brooklyn, parts of Queens, where you can get more for your money accommodation-wise: I've found apartment living in Manhattan great for me and DH, but less good for DS's. Ds2 (who's 9) in particular finds the lack of outside space difficult, and with hindsight we'd have been better off a bit further out, but in a house with a garden. Having said that, there are lots of young families on Manhattan, and it's perfectly do-able, especially if it's only for a few years!

[cityangel]

Hi Bambie, I have just found out dh may also be moving to NYC and I have a 2 year old ds due to go to Pre school in Sept in London. How are you getting on? I am keen for us to live in Manhatten somewhere pushchair/ family friendly (also have a 4 month ds) I may only have a month to do all my research so am gratefull for any feedback.

[dinosaurinmybelly]

There are decent public schools and they have limited capacity, however their catchment area changes to match their capacity and so it is entirely possible to find a place to rent within their catchment area and any good real estate broker would be able to help you do that. We are on the Upper West side, where PS199 is a very good school.

[bambiandthumper]

I have a feeling it is like this all over for the independent sector, and for the best public (state) schools.

DH and I are going over at the end of the month to have a look at preschools and houses, so can get a more accurate picture then.

[MilaMae]

Can I just ask is this the same situation for all schools or just pre-schools?

Also are there any decent state schools or are they highly over subscribed?

[bambiandthumper]

bump for anyone else :o

[dinosaurinmybelly]

Hello Bambi - we are at Dwight and can highly recommend it. They also have a preschool feeder called Woodside which I also have experience of. Other Kindergarten choices on the UWS include Calhoun and Claremont which are very good. I walk by Collegiate a lot but have no experience of it I'm afraid. I think whichever school you choose, you will be pleasantly surprised however. There are also some good public school options here (state schools) and they have specialist schools for the gifted and talented where places are highly sought after as you can imagine. On the East side I know that Bono sent his kids to Dalton and that they are rumored to ask for a significant donation to their Annual Fund at the interview. I have friends who attend St Steohens of Hungary school on the Eastside and they love it. There is also the British International School done by the United Nations Building to consider. If a school is a good fit but far from where you live, often there are buses which pick up and drop off so ask about that.
Outside of schools, if you settle on the East side you have fantastic access to Central Park, the Met, the Guggenheim and the 92nd street YMCA which has an incredible program for kids with after school language, sorts, music, art etc. Fear not, you little ones will thrive here...

[bambiandthumper]

hi dinosaur, we are aiming more for the east side, but it would be great to hear your opinions on any preschools , good or bad, and any of the schools I listed in my first post!
My DT's will be 4 in May, so am I right in thinking that they will have a year of pre k and start kindergarten in September '12? I can't believe I'm thinking this far ahead! :o

[dinosaurinmybelly]

Hello Bambi - we move out here from London 3 years ago and As i was pregnant with DS2 I didn't have time to get involved in all the hype. It will be fine- the preschools here are great. I am on the Upper West Side so happy to help with any specific questions in relation that area. I do know that the process kicks off the first Tuesday in Sep which is the day after Labor Day so at is when you will need to step up to secure a Kindergarten place for your little ones in Sep 12. They would need to be 5 before 31Dec12 to gain entry that year. The Dec date cutoff is different to the UK.

[bambiandthumper]

May I ask where abouts you live/ what school satinandtat?
I'm glad to hear it wasn't too horrendous for you, and hopefully will be the same for us.
The legacy bit didn't suprise me too much, both DH and I attended public schoools in England where precedence is openly given to the children of old boys/girls, though the annual giving is much more of a subtlety
For you did the majority of children come from a specific few pre schools/ nursery, and did your children take the ERB? I am starting to get quite worried about the latter, but it seems to be shrouded In a cloud of mystery! :)