We finally agreed to sell the family home (joint executors). We've had photos done and I've signed off the draft particulars. Sister is dragging her heels with signing. Wants to send everything to a friend to look at, being very picky. Wants a higher price than both estate agents suggested. I think this is all to try and delay the process. I understand she's suffering because she doesn't want the house to go but there is a will and it has to be sold.
I'm having severe anxiety due to all the messages. We have probate. Not sure I can handle the stress anymore. How much would a solicitor charge to act on my behalf to get the house marketed and sold?
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Nightmare sister. Selling family home.
FrostMoon · 27/03/2024 13:24
PleaseletitbeSpring · 02/04/2024 14:55
My co-executor willingly signed to let me be sole executor. She was the lawyer and I wasn't! I don't supposed that your DSis would? It was free. I was able to just get on with the probate myself. I think I would suggest that it would be easier.
Lamelie · 02/04/2024 15:37
Can you remember was there an executors fee?
I’m coexecutor with one sibling and it’s an extra level of difficulty getting two signatures (we live far away) We’re nearly at the end now but I have suggested for future estates (parents 🙁) whatever the will says, we cede to just one officially for simplicity. We would and have advise and help each other as much as possible anyway. But wouldn’t want to take away or have taken away the executors fee.
PleaseletitbeSpring · 02/04/2024 14:55
My co-executor willingly signed to let me be sole executor. She was the lawyer and I wasn't! I don't supposed that your DSis would? It was free. I was able to just get on with the probate myself. I think I would suggest that it would be easier.
Another2Cats · 27/03/2024 18:49
I certainly couldn't give a figure in response to that particular question, you would need to approach some local solicitors.
Another approach may be, if you have a spouse or other similar person that you trust then ask them to do the work for you.
It will still have to be your name on any documents and it will have to be your signature, but you don't actually have to do all the backwards and forwards, dealing with messages etc yourself.
If you have someone like that in your life then perhaps ask them to deal with all of this stuff on your behalf. It will still be down to you to make any final decisions and nothing will happen without your signature on any documents but the other person can deal with all the daily grind of all these messages while still leaving any important decisions up to you.
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