Thanks, this is all helpful, particularly the info about surgery costs.
If this does end in miscarriage, I think I’d also want to pursue paying for surgery privately if surgery was an option for me.
I’ve heard this consultant mentioned elsewhere, yes - I’m not based in London, but think I’d look at having the surgery done in London, with someone with this much experience.
I’m fortunate to have been seeing the same therapist weekly for a while, pre-septum revelation. I think, to be honest, I’m in a kind of shock/ pre-emptive grief period and finding a bit difficult not to drown in this, so haven’t quite got to working through the negative thinking.
I’m in the Facebook group and have used the search to unearth some positive stories yes! It’s helpful, but a source of anxiety definitely. Very true on logging out once I’ve asked a question/ searched instead of just spending nights trawling through the posts. (Again haven’t quite got there yet!)
Best of luck with your surgery, it’s great news.