Pretty sure I posted the same question 6 months ago. I was 41 in July. I have 2 DCs, 9 and 7, but remarried a few years ago and DH and I have been TTC for nearly 2 years. We are unexplained so must be down to egg quality. We've had serious reservations over whether to do IVF. We already have kids but would love one together but hate the idea of IVF. We started one cycle in June which wasn't as nearly as bad as I thought but they have to cancel when they wanted to convert to ISCI which we are both against. I realise that time is against us and that we cannot keep delaying but I don't think either of us can come to a firm decision to do it or not to do it. What do you do when you can't decide? If we keep waiting then the chances drop massively. And the longer we wait the less we feel like doing it. I am also massively worried about possible links to ovarian cancer. I think without that I would go ahead. Can anyone offer advice? Is it normal to feel so reluctant and undecided??
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Our Infertility Support forum is a space to connect with others in the same position, discuss causes, treatment and IVF, and share infertility stories of hope and success.
Infertility
How long can I keep putting off IVF?
17 replies
Goodluckjonathan76 · 22/09/2017 12:32
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.