Hello,
Has anyone sent their children back to school and received judgemental comments about home education. How did you deal with it? I home educated my middle child and mentioned it to my DD's nursery teacher when she went in for settling in sessions. She made a snide comment saying that home educated children are behind academically and how she prefers they stay in school. I just ignored the comment at that time. However, subsequently my DD has refused to participate in a couple of group activities in nursery and has cried when asked to tidy away toys quite profusely. She also never says hello to the teacher even when the teacher goes down to her face and holds her still from her shoulders to say hello. I bumped into one of the EYFS staff members in a local playground and she saw my DD giggling and enjoying herself and she made a comment that she's not like that in nursery. She never ventures outside into the playground or use the toilet and refuses snacks. I was a little shocked and then she added Yvonne (nursery teacher) said she's like that because she has been homeschooled.
Like what the actual.....!
She's 3. How has she been homeschooled? And she's "like that" like what?? My DD is very sociable and loves to meet and chat with my friends and other children. She has friends in nursery and plays happily with the children. She just doesn't say hello to the adults in nursery.
Am I wrong to feel upset about those comments about my DD? Is her behaviour abnormal? I would love other mums with 3/4 year olds to tell me.
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MelThomas1 · 08/03/2023 11:21
creekingmillenial · 08/03/2023 11:41
They just sound ignorant. For what it’s worth as a teacher I know loads of fellow teacher who home educate their own children or would if they could.
MelThomas1 · 08/03/2023 12:13
@Sherrystrull I home educated my Y6 DD because she was falling behind in school in Y3. She went back to another school in September 2022 and is at the top academically and is doing 11+ practice in her spare time in class.
MelThomas1 · 08/03/2023 13:45
@Sherrystrull Do you think those labels on my 3 year old are fair? Do you think they would follow her through to reception (same team dealing with reception class)? My teacher friends have said to not send her to that school.
RoseslnTheHospital · 08/03/2023 13:53
@Sherrystrull your negative experiences of children who have been home schooled might affect your judgement, but surely you're not saying that you would make snide remarks about a younger sibling who hasn't been home schooled but simply attends nursery like the other children? And would your experiences make you carry forward negative judgements that affect your interaction with any children of parents who have at some time home schooled their other children?
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