Tyrannosaurus - yes, the sleepover is a huge step forward for DS1. You probably have seen me on threads about him over the years, as we have had all sorts of ups and downs and desperate times. He has suffered debilitating anxiety (including school phobia) and OCD since he was nine. After one term at secondary, he had a sort of collapse and couldn't even leave the house or meet up with a friend, even at home - so for him to spend so long with a bunch of boys, some of whom he didn't even know, is nothing less than astonishing. Needless to say, he was tearful and beside himself with tiredness this evening, but it has been a big confidence boost for him.
That teacher you are talking about sounds just awful and you don't sound petty about it at all. It sounds as if she was really unfair on your DD, especially making her miss playtime to make up work. I hope discussing it with the Head makes a difference. If not, I don't blame you for considering taking DD2 out of school as well. Having watched my son suffer through years with awful teachers (and, equally, blossom under the good ones), I just don't think it's worth the trauma.
mam - yes, I hope the sleepover will help DS1 continue to take steps forward with socialising. He told me they all went to the playground after breakfast this morning. A few months ago, he had gone to the same playground with a couple of the same boys and he was so frightened he said that his legs were shaking
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Hope all goes well with Yr 2 'meet and greet' tomorrow. I agree with you about the staffroom conversations. I'm sure they have had me down as a neurotic mum too.
You have a lot of commitments! I don't know how you do all that, look after your DC and home educate as well
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Helen - that teacher sounds appalling. Thank goodness she went. I'm glad it is going so well this year (as you say, a partnership between school and parents).
Well, I have managed to get a very tired DS1 to have an early night and now I'm enjoying my new favourite hobby, which is Googling resources for his home education. I have prepared his box of work for tomorrow. We are going to start on the Tudors after lunch and I've decided to begin by reading from 'Terrible Tudors', so that he gets the full horror of life in Tudor times (sewers in the streets, no proper medicine, etc). Am then going to show him a book from the library featuring photographs of Tudor objects - a loo, a 'hornbook', a bed and so on. Once he's hooked , we'll move onto the Battle of Bosworth, which means we can watch reconstructions (will incorporate that useful YouTube clip you mention, Helen), look at life as a Tudor soldier (have a book from the library called 'Tudor War') and discuss the importance of the outcome of the battle. I thought I'd touch on the Princes in the Tower too, as that is like a murder mystery and I think DS will feel for the young boys and their plight. Might get him to write it up as a newspaper article, as that will encompass English too.
I think we should have fun with the Tudor history before looking at the more serious stuff such as evidence and sources. That is home ed's advantage over school - we have the time to spend on the fun stuff, not just on ticking curriculum boxes.
DS1 has an English lesson with his tutor first thing tomorrow, so I will at least get a bit of time to sit down and read (my equivalent of your DD's trampolining, Helen).
Have our regular meeting with DS's CAMHS psychiatrist tomorrow. Last time I saw her, she was recommending special schools and mainstream schools with special units for him. I don't think she's going to be too happy that we have de-registered him, but I hope that, when she sees how much he's improved already, she will understand why we have done it.