Hi @HipOrHop we are in the same boat! My DD is year 10 and has wanted to be a doctor since she was 5! This desire has stuck with her all these years and so now I am supporting her in working out what she needs to do to make that happen. I appreciate she may not succeed or she may change her mind, but I don’t want her not succeeding to be because she didn’t know something or wasn’t sufficiently prepared if you get what I mean.
My DD is also a SJA cadet! She’s not been out on any events yet, she only passed her COFA a couple of weeks ago, but I am hoping she will get the opportunity soon. We had an e-mail
come round about one event but it was the day before she has a week of GCSE mocks (end of June) and she just couldn’t cope with being out of the house when she’d want to be revising.
I used to think that she might not be sufficiently academic for medicine, but since joining secondary she has really blossomed and is top set science and getting consistently high grades. She wasn’t doing as well with the maths, but this year it seems to have all fallen into place and she is getting over 90% in her tests, 100% in a few! She was a July baby and I think she has just taken longer to find her confidence. I’ve spoken with some of her teachers about her wanting to do medicine and they are very encouraging, so I don’t think they have concerns about her not being capable of the required grades. I do worry that being a younger student could work against her confidence wise, but we have a few years to work on that.
My DD is also at a state school and whilst I think they do have girls (it’s an all girls school) go to do medicine I’m not aware of them having lots go. I did find something on their website that said they have a scheme for girls who have aspirations for medicine/Oxbridge etc and that girls will be invited to join this based on their GCSE results, so I will be talking to school about that once my DDs results are out, if she is not approached first. Even if your DDs school is not clued up about supporting students into medicine I wonder if there is one teacher who might support her and act as an advocate? Lots of parents are very hands off with secondary but I have found that when you do approach teachers they can be very supportive, especially when it relates to a pupil wanting to excel in their subject.
My DD’s school do a week of work experience in early July this year for which they have to find their own placement. This has been pretty tough for them as not many places will take 14-15 year olds due to insurance etc. We have been incredibly lucky as an old school friend of mine is a GP and has agreed DD can do 3 days of experience at her practice. I think it is a large, dispensing one with lots going on, and she will get to spend time with all the different clinicians and support staff, then the other 2 days she is going to do an online work experience course.
Has your DD done any of the online work experience courses? The Brighton & Sussex Medical School one seems really good and gets them to reflect on what they learn from their experiences which I think is essential for interviews - they don’t want to know what you did so much as what you learnt from it about yourself and your suitability to practice medicine. She’s doing this as her Duke of Edinburgh skill section, and I think it will be handy for her before she does the summer in person work experience so that she gets the most of it.
My main worries about her preparedness for applying is also the UCAT (because so much rides on it and it is such an unknown quantity at this stage) but also DD’s confidence. She is quite shy and worries about talking to new people and going into new situations. I am hoping she will overcome this with age and maturity, and I’m keen for her to do some SJA events to force her to interact with strangers and gain that experience, but whether she will get there or not is yet to be seen! I gently question her about how will she be able to treat patients if she is too shy to go and speak to an assistant in a shop, for example, but she just dismisses it, but this really is a concern of mine! However, on the plus side she has a fantastic work ethic and a maturity I never had at her age.
Sorry to have waffled on so much! Just excited to have found someone in a similar position, as most of the medicine posts I read on here are year 12 so are in a much different place in their journey. Has your DD any thoughts about where she’d like to study yet (I know they often don’t get a say in this as it is down to strategically applying and taking the one who makes them an offer!)? We live in the southeast and I think DD would prefer not to go too far away so the ones that look interesting are St George’s, BSMS, KMMS, ARU and Portsmouth. DD has no contextual factors as I went to university myself and her school is not on any of the lists (as an all girls school they perform quite well against national scores - if she was at her brother’s school she would be at a school on the lists!) and she isn’t a carer or looked after etc.