Taking DS to his uni on Saturday but today I noticed on the SU website that there'll be a big welcome party for freshers tomorrow night - where the emphasis will be on getting to know new hall mates. (Day to day freshers' events including the ball are next week.)
We could change arrangements and get him there in time.
On the one hand he doesn't want to arrive after most people have begun to settle (we didn't realize that most will, according to the SU site, have arrived by now) and, on the other, he's worried about the fact that he doesn't drink (quite simply, he doesn't like the taste) and thinks that could be a problem at big social events.
We've said that of course it needn't be - there'll be an alcohol free zone at events (according to the site) or he can simply nurse a print for the evening - or not. The focus will be on meeting people for the first time.
Anyway - couple of questions. Are your DCs/will your DCs be at freshers from the start? And how do you reassure them, if that's necessary, that trying to acquire a taste for alcohol isn't necessary for a good time? DS's older brother remembers lots of drinking in his first weeks and says it was part of the freshers' culture but I can't believe that if you don't want to drink, you're going to be seen as a bit odd. At least I very much hope not!
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Missing Freshers' Welcome party a problem? And drinking & freshers.
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Bronwen11 · 17/09/2015 22:18
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