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JuliaMumsnet · 08/03/2022 11:44

For International Women's Day, director of the Centre for Women's Justice Harriet Wistrich (first photo) writes about their work on the 'unjust criminalisation of victims of abuse'.

"Last week I visited Fri Martin, a young Black woman from Toxteth in Liverpool, who had recently been reunited with her delightful young daughters from whom she had been separated for the previous seven years. Fri (second photo) was torn away from them when they were aged only one and two years old after she was arrested for having stabbed their father, Kyle Farrell, who had tried to strangle her. Fri and Kyle had met at school and started dating from the age of 15. The relationship, while good at the beginning, became soured by Kyle’s violence and coercive and controlling behaviour which saw Fri change from a bubbly teenager to a depressed mother of two toddlers. In one violent confrontation, the two children were deprived of both mother and father. Luckily, Fri’s best friend offered to take them in and cared for them during the seven years that Fri was away from them.

Fri was tried and pleaded not guilty by reason of self defence, but the jury convicted her of murder. Her legal team badly failed to build up a relationship of trust with Fri that would have enabled her to disclose the full extent of the violence she was subjected to. They failed to obtain psychiatric evidence which would have shown the trauma she had experienced that influenced her response to the violence she faced on the day of the offence. And they failed to obtain the evidence, captured by the police when Fri was photographed in custody, which showed marks supporting her account that she had been strangled.

As a solicitor with thirty years’ experience representing women who have killed their abusive partners and are appealing murder convictions, from Emma Humphreys to Sally Challen, I was approached by Fri’s family to see if I could help find grounds of appeal. It took me and my counsel a number of years to find grounds and obtain evidence that would eventually pass the extremely high threshold required to appeal a conviction. In December 2020, the Court of Appeal quashed Fri’s murder conviction and ordered a re-trial. In May 2021, on the eve of the retrial, following the dramatic emergence of photographic evidence revealing strangle marks, the Crown offered to accept a plea to manslaughter and Fri jumped at the chance rather than risk another unpredictable jury verdict. The judge sentenced her to a very harsh ten years imprisonment and she had to return to prison until eventually she was eligible for release in December 2021.

Fri will be joining myself, David Challen and Louise Bullivant at a fundraising event on March 14th (register here). As many of you will recall, David campaigned courageously to help raise awareness of coercive control in support of the appeal by his mother, Sally. Louise is the solicitor for Emma-Jayne Magson, convicted of the murder of her violent partner and also separated from her young child.

I am the founder and director of Centre for Women’s Justice which is aimed at holding the state to account around violence against women and girls and challenging discrimination in the criminal justice system. In February 2021 we launched a detailed report, entitled ‘Women who Kill: How the state criminalises women we might otherwise be burying’. As the title suggests, many of the women who end up killing their partners are victims of male violence who could easily have been the one who ended up dead. As Fri’s brother, Ishmail, said: “When I received news that police and ambulance were attending Fri’s home after a fatal incident, my first thought was that it was Fri who was dead”.

We have also been working on a project looking at the wider issue of the unjust criminalisation of victims of abuse. We know that the vast majority of women in prison are themselves victims of domestic violence, sexual abuse and exploitation, many there as a direct result of that abuse. We have developed a series of recommendations for change across the criminal justice system to tackle the fact that women are so often criminalised when they should have been protected. Whether they have retaliated against violence inflicted upon them or been coerced into offending because of an abusive partner, it is a shameful indictment of a failing criminal justice system that resources are put into their prosecution rather than improving systems to prevent violence and abuse in the first place.

As a result of the work we do, many women have approached us seeking assistance to appeal convictions arising in circumstances where they were victims. It is very hard to find solicitors to help take forward these cases and part of the reason is the decimation of criminal legal aid which makes it hard for cash strapped firms to invest in the work required to help build up grounds of appeal.

If any of you can help, please donate and share our fundraiser open from 12pm on International Women’s Day 8th March – 15th March. Donations received during this week will be doubled by The Big Give. See our #GiveHerJustice campaign here."

Harriet Wistrich is the director of Centre for Women’s Justice and co-founder of the campaign group Justice for Women. (Find here on twitter here).

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WorkHardPlayHard1 · 07/11/2022 16:28

Hi there

Have donated on 14 march 22 following this post but need an invoice as my accountant is asking. How do I get one as got nothing via email? I donated as charity via my company

Many thanks ! 🙏

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soinpain · 29/03/2022 18:54

How many men she supported who killed their abusive partners.

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RCBadger · 15/03/2022 21:19

I meant that they didn't pursue the past allegations of violent domestic abuse as mitigating factors at trial possibly because they felt that because she stabbed the victim while he was strangling her, that should have enough proof for self-defense.

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sawdustformypony · 14/03/2022 20:01

FTR, I'm not sure if the fact that she had been the victim of past violent abuse by the victim is even relevant in the case.

It was accepted as contributing to her poor mental health at her appeal in 2020 and that the reason for quashing the original murder conviction.

The fact that he was trying to strangle her when she stabbed him should have been enough for a self-defense claim. I'm guessing that's why her first all-male legal team did not pursue that

At her trial, the primary thrust of her case was the killing was in self-defense - what did her legal team pursue then ? In her examination-in-chief, her counsel would only have been able to ask open questions thereby allowing Martin free rein on the narrative she was giving.

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endofthelinefinally · 14/03/2022 19:46

@Ionegoodchild

Hi I’m nearly 38 weeks pregnant and I went to the farm last week with my little girl and we fed the sheep and lambs , only afterwards I spotted a sign saying about the risks being pregnant about possible infection toxoplasmosis!! I am freaking out now that I have been infected and going to harm my baby ! I’ve had a bad headache over last couple of days and muscle aches but thought this was normal pregnancy symptoms but I’ve googled and it’s made me worry so much ! Anyone have any experience with this or advice ?

@lonegoodchild

You need to start your own thread, either in chat or pregnancy health. It will just get lost in this one.
Meanwhile, my advice would be to call 111.
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RCBadger · 14/03/2022 15:46

Thanks for the information.

FTR, I'm not sure if the fact that she had been the victim of past violent abuse by the victim is even relevant in the case. The fact that he was trying to strangle her when she stabbed him should have been enough for a self-defense claim. I'm guessing that's why her first all-male legal team did not pursue that.

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sawdustformypony · 14/03/2022 13:39

@RCBadger

Is there such a thing as imperfect self-defense in England? That's when one or more of the elements of self-defense (innocence, imminence, avoidance, reasonableness, and proportionality) is not present. By the way, in most of the US, stand your ground laws remove avoidance because it means that if you are legally allowed to be somewhere, you aren't required to try to find a means of escape.

Imperfect self-defense doesn't make you less guilty; however, it can mitigate your sentence if you are convicted.

It sounds to me like some of her cases involve imperfect self-defense.

In Wales and england the term 'imperfect' self-defense isn't used. Of the elements that you have cited in your post, the one that has had much prominence of late is that of proportionality. The law here has for a long time taken the position that the person being attacked (ie the defendant) is not expected to, in the heat of the moment, gauge the exact level of threat against him or her when 'deciding' on their own actions in defence. So a self-defence could be disproportionate and still be a good defence. But of late Parliament has been faffing over the difference between 'disproportionate' and 'grossly disproportionate' in different circumstances (such defence with in burglary). At the end of the day much, as always in a lot of criminal case, depends on the facts.

In the Martin case, in the end she accepted unlawful manslaughter and did not argue the defence (which is an absolute defence) that the stabbing was made in self-defenses. Don't know why her defence team thought her sentence was 'gobsmacking' (I think I read that somewhere) under the circumstances. And if that was the case, why didn't they appeal against an excessive sentence ??
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RCBadger · 13/03/2022 18:16

Is there such a thing as imperfect self-defense in England? That's when one or more of the elements of self-defense (innocence, imminence, avoidance, reasonableness, and proportionality) is not present. By the way, in most of the US, stand your ground laws remove avoidance because it means that if you are legally allowed to be somewhere, you aren't required to try to find a means of escape.

Imperfect self-defense doesn't make you less guilty; however, it can mitigate your sentence if you are convicted.

It sounds to me like some of her cases involve imperfect self-defense.

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Ionegoodchild · 13/03/2022 14:27

Hi I’m nearly 38 weeks pregnant and I went to the farm last week with my little girl and we fed the sheep and lambs , only afterwards I spotted a sign saying about the risks being pregnant about possible infection toxoplasmosis!! I am freaking out now that I have been infected and going to harm my baby ! I’ve had a bad headache over last couple of days and muscle aches but thought this was normal pregnancy symptoms but I’ve googled and it’s made me worry so much ! Anyone have any experience with this or advice ?

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Benjaminsniddlegrass · 13/03/2022 09:25

Incredible work, thank you so much for all you do. Donated & shared.

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twilightermummy · 12/03/2022 15:05

I’ll be donating. Thank God for advocates like you.

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BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 12/03/2022 08:25

I bloody love the centre for women's justice. thanks for promoting this event @MNHQ

Also I'm interested in the timing. normally these events are scheduled right at the young children bedtime witching hour of 1900. i'm wondering if the 1730 start time is to avoid that? anyway, it will make it easier for me to attend, so thank you for that too!

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Neilsfavouritechilli · 11/03/2022 20:11

I might be wrong but I think Fri's story was covered on File on 4 on Radio 4 a little while back on an episode called "controlled, abused, criminalised". Its a seriously powerful listen.

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WorkHardPlayHard1 · 11/03/2022 18:51

Oh wow! Thank you for caring for these you g ladies and for all the hard word that you have given and for all the skills you have learned.

You are truly wonderful for everything you do. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I can only imagine the torture, frustration and injustice suffered by these ladies.

Am totally behind you to keep going in your desperately needed mission.

Have donated, how could you not after reading this and thank you Mumsnet for bringing this to our attention.

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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MidCenturyClegs · 11/03/2022 17:43

Brava, Harriet!

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Monitaurus · 10/03/2022 14:36

Brave tough knowledgable woman. Thank you Harriet for everything you have done for women.

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sawdustformypony · 10/03/2022 12:41

Alas @Russell19, the Devil's advocates are only welcome when the proposing arguments are robust enough to withstand a challenge. Make of that what you will.

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Steppedonalego · 10/03/2022 11:04

Harriet, you are awesome. Have donated.

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Weatherwax13 · 10/03/2022 06:33

Thankyou Harriet. So much respect and gratitude for your work

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ItWasPeculiarButBearable · 10/03/2022 06:22

Wow, Harriet. Thank you, just thank you.

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bagofsugar · 09/03/2022 19:25

Thank you. I am so grateful there are women like you in this world.

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maudesvagina · 09/03/2022 19:11

You and your colleagues are amazing Harriet. I doff my hat to you all

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Delphinium20 · 09/03/2022 18:34

Thank you, Harriet!!!

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Russell19 · 09/03/2022 16:14

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/03/2022 10:49

Thank you Harriet Thanks

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