Posting for some advice because tbh most of the resources I have looked at online aren't helping me. Sorry it's long
My DS doesn't have eidetic memory but memory recall is exceptional. For context, LO is Y1 summer born, reading stage 9 ort (I know reading level is not indicative of g&t) teacher has said she knows he can read anything but is slowing him down for comprehension although his understanding is mostly there if he enjoys the storyline, maths he can add large numbers upto 1000s (so for example 1240+230 etc) multiplication/division understanding is there and recall of x's. General knowledge, he tends to get very interested in certain topics for months so countries, flags, continents, capital cities, Pangea, solar system. Hes been interested in the solar system since around 3 and knows more than any adult I know. He plays like most other kids his age (youngest of 4DC) and is interested in age appropriate games - loves Lego, creative play, paw patrol 🤦🏽♀️ Isn't particular sporty, does a few after school activities.
My issue is that despite bringing it up with school several times he's just not being stretched, I joined potential plus with the hope of getting him tested but it's just too expensive and I don't find the resources that much help. His school is independent, they obviously know he's bright but I feel like I'm having the same discussions with them and they tell me they are stretching him but I see no evidence of it and it feels like he could be doing so much more. I was told he'd have 1-1 time to further his knowledge and he does extension work in most class work which is an additional worksheet on the topic they're doing. The class size is quite small, under 13 kids, and I'm told the conversations throughout the day with him encourage him to further his knowledge and are 'at his level'. Perhaps because it's independent I am expecting too much, he is happy though and enjoys school so should I just let him be? I feel like he has a real 'gift' and I don't know how to best advocate for him.
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wheresthebrokenglass · 07/02/2024 20:06
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thistimelastweek · 07/02/2024 20:14
He sounds great. He sounds amazing.
So let him be.
He has to navigate the real world and if he's really that smart and clever he won't necessarily look back and thank you for advocating for him.
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