She's had this for a number of years now. She has oxygen and a nebuliser that she uses constantly and is also taking morphine. She's been hospitalised twice since xmas and has had numerous episodes recently which have her bedridden for days at a time. GP was round today and has upped her oxygen and organised for the district nurse to come in tomorrow to put in a catheter.
My dad is her carer but he is also in poor health (had a heart attack 8 weeks ago, had stents fitted and awaiting gall bladder removal).
Me and DSis live close but she works 2 jobs, 6 days a week and, although I'm on maternity leave, my kids are 20 months and 6 weeks and unable to be there as often as I'd like. (The house is not toddler friendly at all).
Anyway, this is not about how guilty I feel. I really want to know what's likely to happen next and what timeframe we have. I am not the strongest person emotionally at the best of times and hormones are still rampant, but I need to know what I'm dealing with. Mum is very low understandably and was talking today about just wanting to go to sleep but not wanting to leave her DGCs. I feel so helpess and .
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Can someone talk to me about COPD - my mum is very unwell
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doughnutty · 03/08/2011 20:43
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