I'm not even sure what I want to get out of this post apart from a rant. I work in a team of about 18. The 5 most senior members are men (in general really good managers and a great team!). 44% of team are women. I've recently had a number of requests for information ignored multiple times which has left me unable to give answers to my under pressure stakeholders. Had asked manager for support in balancing these needs and said I was struggling to access (admittedly limited) resource. Conversation was apparently one for a 'later date.' Got put under so much pressure by stakeholders that I asked for the information in a team group chat to try and get an answer and the shit hit the fan. Even dressed my request up with praise for changes so far, made sure to blame the system for my messages not being seen (instead of being ignored), said I was happy to find an interim make do solution for accessing resource etc. But apparently I'm being stressy and too demanding on the team's time. This is info that I could have access to and get in seconds if they would relinquish control. Just utterly peeved off that I've ended up being the one in the wrong. I really don't think one of the men asking for that information would have been treated the same way. They seem to get away with being much more abrupt and demanding. Grr.
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ParkingFeud · 30/09/2021 20:19
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