I am looking for someone who had a similar experience.
My son is 5 (almost 6). He's been having weekly piano lessons for few months now, after the teacher confirmed he was keen and ready. He seemed very enthusiastic at first and he quickly learned the first few musical notes. We bought him a cheap-ish keyboard that he uses for daily practice at home and all was well.
But now that everything is getting more complex (playing with both hands, coordinating the fingers, understanding note length) he's struggling with focus and motivation. I see he struggles to understand the instructions and at home he doesn't want to practice anymore (unless I bribe him or I invent a game or he's in a good mood).
I know 5 is young and this is very normal. But what do I do?
First instinct is to stop everything and wait for him to be older, BUT:
- I hate to pass the message that you stop at the first hurdle
- We have invested time and money into this activity and it looks like a real pity giving up before even having learned the full set of very basic skills
- It's an activity that I picked to increase his ability to focus and concentrate, and teach him discipline. It's basically the only non-sport based activity he does!
What can I do to keep this going, at least until the summer? Should I ask the teacher to slow down and go over the bits he doesn't understand again and again? Should I go for bi-weekly sessions to keep it lighter? Any other strategy?