My mother has MCI and is just about managing on her own, but I have to keep a watchful eye over her and the house, which does absorb a lot of my time and add to my worries (I've got a three year old daughter, and older kids from previous marriage).
She does have some friends who have moved into care homes, and does visit them occasionally. I'm wondering how to drop the suggestion that she could move into one of them. I know one near me that does respite care, so I could suggest this for when I go on holiday - but I suspect even if she does go there, that she'll be worrying about the house and going back every day to open/close curtains etc.
I'm wondering if there are any care homes that provide just meals, so my mother could go there for meals and company, but still return to her house to sleep, this might be a good way to ease into the idea of moving permanently.
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How to broach the subject of moving parent to residential care and selling home to pay for it?
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falstaff1980 · 11/03/2024 16:25
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