My dad is 74, since retiring 9 years ago he has went from being a really nice man, to a complete and utter nasty individual. The way he speaks to my mum is disgusting and he is horrible to her all day, everyday. I’ve begged her to leave him and move in with us but she won’t leave the house to him, she says she has much right to live there as him. She’s in tears a lot and there is just no getting through to him. He just turns nasty with me. The final straw was when he was in hospital for a sore back and he threatened to slap me in front of my kids because I wouldn’t bring him home early. I’ve told my mum that I’m walking away from him. I can’t take the poison anymore. There is no sign of dementia, I think it’s to do with him drinking everynight since he retired,
although is nasty sober or drunk. Am I a bad person for walking away, I know I would feel guilty if anything happened to him in the future and I wasn’t talking to him.
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freddyfox · 23/03/2023 21:51
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