I wondered if anyone might be able to suggest anything I could try please.
My dad is very forgetful and gets anxious and often a bit confused about what’s going on. For at least a year. Nothing drastic yet and he always has my stepmum with him to do things he needs to do so he’s getting on OK day to day. I don’t live close by.
I raised with my stepmum last time I visited that visiting the GP might help him. And that the GP should be made aware because in future they may be able to offer help to her etc.
She will acknowledge that my Dad has memory problems but said that he won’t want to go to a doctor. She said that she’s going to be focusing on the positives.
I feel that I can’t just leave it at that. I don’t think my Dad has the capacity to make the GP appointment himself, but I could try suggesting that he does that. Can I call the GP and tell them that I am worried about his memory and ask them to invite him in to an appointment?
What can I do in terms of any professional involvement, as his daughter? Is there anything that he’s missing out on, if my stepmum won’t take him to the doctors?
What help will seeking a diagnosis give him?
Or what help could it give to her? Thank you for any advice on this, I am completely out of my depth.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Elderly parents
Forgetful and won’t/can’t see a doctor.
16 replies
BeachwoodCafe · 13/06/2022 21:27
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.