Hi DM moved into a local CH after having several falls and her Alzheimers worsening. She is currently on respite care funded by the NHS but I chose this home (in a hurry) as I wanted some say in it. It was recommended to me by several people including a paramedic who knows most of the local CH's. I was shown around by the owner and was impressed. Not swanky but homely, clean and friendly.
DM seems fairly settled and we are hoping she can stay permanently as she can no longer live alone but there are couple of niggles I have. I didn't meet the CH manager as she was on holiday when I was shown around. My first impressions were not great as when I called to see how was on her first morning there, her reply was "demanding"! I was quite shocked at this, should have said something at the time really. She has been very efficient since and is well qualified working with dementia patients but I just don't warm to her. Secondly, when I was shown round it was very fresh smelling but the last few times I have been in, the area near my mum's room smells awful. I assume they have an incontinent patient nearby so it is understandable but surely they must be able to manage it?
Otherwise DM says the food is good, decent entertainment and the other residents are friendly. Not all of them have dementia so she is able to join in conversations and activities when suitable.
Should I be concerned by these issues? Having a wobble about whether I am making the right decision!
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OnthePiste · 04/05/2022 07:36
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