I was a fussy eater as a child and ate small portions. I’ve always found large amounts of food off putting.
As a teen and young adult I was skinny and constantly asked/accused of having an eating disorder.
I mentioned this to dh early in our relationship and he laughed hard at the idea and it sort of broke the spell for me. We enjoy food together, could be healthier but overall we’re fairly normal.
But I was back in my childhood home recently for what was supposed to be a few hours but ended up being a couple of days. I made a sandwich, realised the ham was a week out of date and decided not to risk it.
And then I struggled to eat. I had to cook for my parent and normally would have cooked enough for two and ate together. But I didn’t, because I told myself I’d order in, but I didn’t do that either.
Popped out to the shops in the morning, to buy ham, and picked up a few other bits including apple turnovers. I couldn’t manage to eat anything other than a slice of ham (on its own, no sandwich) and the apple turn overs.
When I left to go home, I intended stopping for a takeaway somewhere nearby, but then I decided I’d get one nearer to home (an hour away), and then I was too tired so I went home thinking I’d eat there, but I went to bed.
And since then I’ve just struggled. I’m hungry, I know I need to eat, but I can’t think of anything I want. My throat tightens up, and I don’t bother. I’m living on crackers, chocolate, coffee and the odd takeaway.
I’m still cooking dinners for my family, and prepping lunches. Handling food isn’t a problem.
In the supermarket the other day I was trying to think of quick, easy snacks to buy for myself but nothing was appealing.
I know this doesn’t fit with real eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia but I was hoping someone might have advice. I’m not sure where to turn - it doesn’t seem worth taking up time on an eating disorder helpline. I don’t think my gp can do anything. It will probably pass in time.
I feel really ashamed of this and I don’t want to talk about it irl. It’s too close to the teasing/bullying when I was younger and it feels a bit raw.
Any thoughts?
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Worryingaboutthis · 03/12/2021 20:01
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