DH and I are splitting up. It’s all very amicable. He’s looking for a new property and we suspect he will move out in early September. The divorce petition has been filed.
He will have the children (nearly 5 and 7) EOW from Friday afternoon to Sunday early evening. He’ll also have them every other Thursday afternoon after school. I know it must be a million times worse for him as he’s only having them less than 3 days a fortnight. However, I feel sick at the thought of it.
My plans to cope include:
- Working overtime on some of those weekends
- Revising for my professional exams
- Cleaning
- Decorating
I have plenty of friends but they either have their own children and families or 1 is single but she’s angry, bitter and scornful of me for getting divorced. I have a couple of older relatives that I could spend time with but I don’t want that to be a regular, expected thing.
So how do you cope without your children? DH pointed out that I’ll have a regular, guaranteed lie in and I almost threw up. I want to be a full time Mum :(
Words of wisdom are appreciated. Thanks.