We have just started using a live in carer but I'm not happy with her and wonder if I am justified in my feelings. My mum does not need much personal care (can bath and dress herself, is continent etc) but she does need putting to bed at night and has mid range dementia.
The carer is nice and seems caring but she is not very capable in the home. She makes my mum the same meals over and over again (for example gives her shepherds pie 2 or 3 times every week) and they are not at all inspiring. My mum loves home made puddings and cakes but this lady just buys ready made desserts. My mum is very house proud but the carer is not very clean or tidy - she leaves the washing up after cooking and comes back and does it a couple of hours later. I went once and mum had run out of milk. Once mum was upset because there was no loo roll and she got up to try to find some and had a accident on the carpet. My mum doesn't like the carer - they haven't bonded.
I'm thinking of telling the agency that I don't want her back but I don't know if I'm just being too fussy.
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
live in carer expectations
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rabbitmat · 06/06/2018 20:46
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