Hi everyone!
I am a dad of 2 boys, which my amazing wife and I have adopted from Somalia 4 years ago. I'm trying to take best care of my boys and therefore I am a bit concerned. When the boys have arrived to their home, our first concern was taking good care of them and making them feel safe . Back then my wife has found the best shampoos and hairdressers that are suitable for my sons type of hair. But now, I think that is the time to do my part of the job as a father. I've noticed recently that my older son who is 13 has started having leg hair and also a mustache, that is much thicker than mine when I first had it. I want to sit and have comfortable conversation with him without invading his privacy and I don't know how to do it. The truth is I don't know how to start a conversation about it and I don't know much about African body hair type or how to take care of it. Also my sons are circumcised, which I'm not as an European men, and I don't know is there anything I should speak about with them or not. What is the best way approaching this topic without making it awkward, but also teaching them something valuable? I don't want to scare them but I am aware they need some type of education as I did before, cause for example I had a frenulum breve, which could not be resolved until I talked with my father who has later taken be to a hospital to have minor surgery. That's why I want them to feel confident about sharing something that is private if they need it, but I am not a type of person that will put my nose in their bussines if they do not want it.
Thank you so much for the responses.
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miloshsrb · 19/03/2024 14:05
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