Thanks for apologising. No, I wasn’t being goady.
I’m a pretty chilled out person, I’m not goady, I don’t feel ‘outraged.’ But i do think there are probably lots of people like me who start threads asking things, or just wondering or expressing serous doubt/concern (like taking sanitary products in clear bags) and they get jumped upon.
Getting jumped upon takes many forms, and includes:
- being accusing of lying
- being accused of being ‘goady’
- being accused of exaggerating
Only this morning in relation to my posts (as a parent) you’ve assumed I was being goady, and somebody else has assumed I was lying about the sanitary issue. I think on both occasions it’s teachers making those assumptions.
I am sure that you are frustrated at the moment, you. My y10 DD is one of those kids on target to get grades 8/9, doing her best, under a lot of stress really. The idea of going back to some sort of dystopian school day finally caused her to crumble into tears last night after all of this time.
As part of a very long conversation with her last night, she told me that she thinks roughly 40-50% of the kids in some of her classes have done very little work during lockdown. I’m a bit cynical about it, some of this will be bravado, but nevertheless, I do feel sorry for teachers who will have to mop this up after the summer, and I suppose one of the things I don’t understand is why schools wouldn’t try to be hugely creative and pro-active right now and use the time they have to reduce the damage already done.
Although our school is opening for a few weeks, the first week each student gets to come in and meet their form teacher for five minutes. That’s all. It’s apparently to ask about their well being, but I think their well-being would be better served having something a bit more concrete.