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Why did someone film me today?

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MsJaneAusten · 17/04/2020 21:37

Ok. I know you can’t actually answer this, but I’m genuinely baffled (and a bit pissed off tbh).

I was out for a run today, on the pavement of a quiet road, semirural, about 100 metres from home. Nearest people were about 20 metres in front of me on the path, no one else in sight. A car went past and the passenger clearly filmed me - holding her phone up, panning it around to follow me running.

Why???

I’m not particularly interesting looking. I wasn’t running like Phoebe from friends. Why was she filming? What’s she doing with the footage? I know I should just ignore and move on, but I’m totally confused. Did she think I was doing something wrong? Breaking lock down in some way?

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BanditoShipman · 18/04/2020 14:48

@PumpkinP one of my cats is massive and fluffy, bigger than some of our dogs. If you’re Worcestershire then we did see you and think Confused 🤣🤣

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JesusInTheCabbageVan · 18/04/2020 10:53

My son took a picture of a cat on someone’s wall the other day outside their house as we went for a walk, I hope the people didn’t think we were weirdos as he Really liked the cat and wanted to take a pic! (He didn’t touch it) The people inside probably thought we were nutters 😂

@PumpkinP In happier times, we visited Rhodes Old Town during a family holiday. Lots of beautiful old buildings, lots of tourists taking photos. In one spot there was a cat sunbathing in front of an old, weathered-looking ordinary front door and people were literally queuing up to photograph him Grin In fairness it would have made a perfect photo, but I loved the fact that all these people from around the world have identical photos of this one cat Grin

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Mustbethewine · 18/04/2020 10:16

Someone I know put a video of him driving past an epmty car in a layby near his home on SM. He captioned it something along the lines of "I bet this car belongs to tourists, thinking their above the law, hiking the mountains!" He had no evidence they were tourists he just did it to gain attention for 'looking out for his community' 🤦‍♀️ lockdown police!!

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TreeTopTim · 18/04/2020 10:10

Some people are so weird. I have not came across this at all while I have been out for my daily exercise. People around here have been polite.

I did have one guy laugh at me in the supermarket when I came around the corner and nearly bumped into him. I apologised and he started laughing. Next time I might just bump him with my trolley. Twat.

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Samtsirch · 18/04/2020 10:06

@ellenwood
I know !!
I have given up writing my normal diary as absolutely nothing happens 😂
I also think that during lockdown every one is going to find out that they actually don't have a novel in them, lol..

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Springersrock · 18/04/2020 09:59

People have been asked not to ride though and use other methods to school horses for now haven't they

No.

DD has been doing lots of ground work with the odd bit of ridden flat work in the school. Her pony is sane and sensible. She’s not out hacking or jumping.

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RB68 · 18/04/2020 09:49

People have been asked not to ride though and use other methods to school horses for now haven't they - private land or not this is about the potential for injury. That was my understanding anyway. Not that I wld be filming any child like that and publically posting that is unreasonable

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TwentyViginti · 18/04/2020 09:30

lyralalala Your post made me laugh! that posting, nosy, self righteous neighbour can't catch a break! called out every time! Grin

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Splodgetastic · 18/04/2020 09:30

I never believed that what happened with the Stasi could happen here as I’ve always thought that Brits are more pragmatic about rules, but I believe it now!

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Springersrock · 18/04/2020 09:15

This situation seems to be bringing out the absolute worst in some people.

My daughter (14) was filmed and posted on a FB group. She was riding her pony in the school in our private livery yard. There is a public footpath that runs alongside the yard so people would have been able to see the top of her head over the hedge, but to have got the film he took he must have trespassed onto the yard

The group admin deleted it

People need to mind their own bloody business

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MsTSwift · 18/04/2020 09:05

A better historical analogy is post war east Germany. By the time they dismantled that regime they found buildings full of mad files on pretty much everyone turned out about a third of the population were spying on family and friends for the government .

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AuntieMarys · 18/04/2020 08:56

Was it that poster Briggs who publicly shamed her neighbour for not clapping the NHS? Has she ramped it up?

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WhentheRabbitsWentWild · 18/04/2020 08:54

What @Samtsirch said

I have seen a fair few videos of queues at the supermarkets, or people clapping the NHS but I have never seen one of a jogger minding her own business , jogging . Its bizarre if anything .
Unless, were there other people around OP ? Perhaps, for reasons known not to us, she was filming all of them as the car went along ?

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PrincipalVernon · 18/04/2020 08:36

This situation is bringing out the worst in some people: me, my husband and young daughter went for a short walk yesterday and a car slowed down with 4 women in it and the passenger started shouting abuse at us saying ‘what the f*k is wrong with people being out when wer supposed to be in social isolation, you f*king idiots’
Which was nice for my 4 year old to hear, I didn’t see much point in arguing with idiot but could have pointing out that there were 4 in the car so was that actually in the ‘rules’ and we are following social distancing not social isolation

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MsJaneAusten · 18/04/2020 08:23

@JemSynergy - I did search the main local sites, but so many have cropped up since lockdown that it could be anywhere.

I’d not though if TikTok. Maybe I’m more ‘interesting’ looking than I thought. Sigh.

@GreenTeaMug - how rude! They could have at least told you. Did you know the people who’d taken the photo? A picture of my house is on the wall of a local restaurant, but it was taken before we lived here and is part of the history of the restaurant, if that makes sense (though not a particularly interesting house in its own right)

I just have to file this under “people are weird” and move on. Don’t I?

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TheUnquestionedAnswer · 18/04/2020 07:03

I've been taking lots of photos, mainly of scenery, but if I see a nice house, I try to get it in the picture without being too obvious.
I was astounded yesterday when someone I know said she had been to visit her family 'at a safe distance'. We are talking 20 year olds not elderly relatives. I said that I didn't think that was allowed and she said, oh no, I think you can. So, I'm thinking, here's me, single, abiding by every rule in the book, not visiting my elderly mother (well, she is miles away, but still) and not seeing my kids who live local to me, so I looked it up (to make sure I hadn't imagined it or if the rules had changed) and plain and simple it's there on the government website. So, I sent her the link, and she said 'oh well, it's all a bit of a grey area'. Err no, it isn't - just read the fucking link!!!!!

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GreenTeaMug · 18/04/2020 04:53

I was enormously pissed off a few years ago when i went to a local heritage exhibition and there were pictures of my house there. They had been taken and displayed without my permission (and the accompanying notes got some of the history wrong. And said 'owned since 1993 by the Family Green Tea Mug).

It was a total surpirse to see that there. (It is not a big house or anything, but used to be a bakery and so somehow was of local interest)

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AmICrazyorWhat2 · 18/04/2020 04:44

Not related to lockdwn, but passersby often take photos of my front garden (and part of the house) because we have nice flowers and flowering trees...yes, they look nice in the spring, but I don't want my garden on your Instagram. Perhaps I should stick some junk out there instead to put them off!

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GreenTeaMug · 18/04/2020 04:17

DressingGown that reminds me of an old friend of mine who when we went to the pub once gestured to a person at another table and hissed at me; 'I think she must have a drinking problem, because every time I am in here she is too"!

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TheGirlWithAPrince · 18/04/2020 04:16

Im also getting fed up with the amount of policing people are doing..

You are aloud to go out! Its just about using common sense to be as careful as you can so no parties or big gatherings etc, some people take it too far.

People look at me wierd if i take my 2 toddlers to the supermarket but at the end of the day they need fresh air too! (We walk there) they cant literally stay inside my flat with no air or outside sun for 6 weeks and its not like they are running around in the store giving people corona virus they just sit in the trolley!

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JemSynergy · 18/04/2020 03:38

There are a lot of area/neighbourhood facebook groups springing up where people have taken up policing everyone's movements by posting up photos of people and complaining about what thery're doing. Search to see if there is one for the area you live in. You might find there is a post about you.

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DressingGownofDoom · 18/04/2020 03:01

'It's definitely the lock down police but why was she in the car as a passenger?'

This is what these wankers do. Like the posts 'I was in Poundland today and it was full of people! Stay @ home!! Idiots' or the videos of streets full of people that the person filming is walking amongst Hmm

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PumpkinP · 18/04/2020 03:00

It was a massive fluffy cat, he was fascinated as it was double the size of our cat. The people inside were probably thinking why are these people taking a picture of our house 😂. In our defence he hadn't been out in a while!

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MsJaneAusten · 18/04/2020 02:43

I’m definitely an outsider. I’ve only lived here seven years Grin

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browzingss · 18/04/2020 02:29

If you’re “semi rural” maybe she thinks you’re an “outsider”?

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