For those of us with fertility issues/problems: when do you know that it's finally time to stop trying to conceive, and accept that a successful pregnancy is unlikely?
The emotional, physical and financial cost of fertility treatments is high, and can define life's decisions/actions to the point of almost becoming an obsession. The visits to the doctor at the precise time needed in your cycle, the bloodtests, drugs administered at the right times on the right days, the multiple scans, the consultations/evaluations - it's all consuming and defines what is done and when.
It's so hard not to think that a different doctor, a different course of treatment, a different fertility center, reflexology/chinese herbs/osteopathy, yet another attempt might finally result in a baby being conceived and born.
I don't want to rob myself of enjoying the wonderful life I have, but equally know that I would dearly like a sibling for dd - for my sake and hers. I will not conceive without fertility treatments (too complicated to explain here), and find myself getting caught up in the "next time could be the lucky one" trap, or the "are you sure you've really exhausted EVERY possibility?" syndrome.
But, when do you stop trying and get on with living the life you have? I know this is a highly personal decision, but would like to hear from those of you who have faced this as I try to decide the way forward.
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Earlybird · 12/04/2004 13:33
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