Still not up the duff

[littlewater]

well I'm still not up the duff. Only been 3 months. Feeling a little blue oh well of to work tomorrow.
Lw

[OracleInaCoracle]

No, just the boy is mine, the girl is a mn friends. [Grin] at twins, although my first cycle I got 16 (iirc) follies. Was advised to not ttc, totally ignored of course poor dh thought his willy would drop off

[OracleInaCoracle]

Lol buggerlugs, my cons looks like mr toad. He is vile. But now I'm used to the dildocam. They may try clomid on you, which is a bugger. I became the antichrist

[OracleInaCoracle]

I'm being tested for it myself (I have joint issues too) I tell dh, it'll be worth it in the end.

[itsohsoquiet]

Yes lissielou. Hopefully I don't have it but if I do it can be successfully treated so it's not the end of the world. Just another hurdle. My mum wasn't diagnosed until very recently and had lots of miscarriages because of it. Although she did have two healthy children eventually. If I end up with two healthy children it will all be worth it, no matter how long it takes.

[OracleInaCoracle]

I will find a link to it when dh gets off the laptop (am on phone). Agnus castus is a herb which lengthens your leutal phase, you get it from health food shops but its very, very powerful. It basically postpones your period, but people have recommended it on here without consulting an expert or seeing whether it is needed. It doesn't get you pregnant and it can mess you up pretty badly. And the damage can be pretty long term.

Lw, thank you x

[OracleInaCoracle]

Buggerlugs, hopefully it will work. What is the next plan?

[Ariesgirl]

Forgive my ignorance, but what is lupus please? And what's the deal on Agnus castus, lissie? I thought I would give it a go for some unknown reason a few months ago and then stopped when I heard about it being pretty powerful stuff and not to be underestimated.

[littlewater]

Lissie, good luck.
Lw

[OracleInaCoracle]

Ah, so a form of lupus? The drug treatment is vv good (and reduces the risk of mc) I genuinely hope you don't have to wait much longer, and thank you. The only good things are that its made dh and I closer, and I am 100% sure that I am ready.

[itsohsoquiet]

APS (Antiphospholipid syndrome)
I can't imagine having to wait as long as some of you for a baby and I really do feel for you. Sorry for posting without taking the time to think about what I was saying first!

[OracleInaCoracle]

Buggerlugs, I am I'm afraid and I really wish I'd been wrong. I spout about agnus castus and other fertilty drugs taken without prescription along with early testing and opks frequently. There is so little info out there and desperation makes you do things you wouldn't normally. Have you seen a gp? Feb is too lkong, they need to start your period asap.

[littlewater]

Yeah your right bugger,
Maybe because I've got family stuff to do, that will teach me to become a good parent.

Lw

[littlewater]

Lissie,
Thanks I'm glad I havnt offended anyone. I just needed to vent. It must be awful to wait years! All I know is that when that babe arrives it will worth the wait.

Aries, I think that's what set me off, I worked with the two girls that are pg.

Lw

[OracleInaCoracle]

Itsohsoquiet, sorry if I was a bit harsh. I know its shit and I wish you luck, I am v disheartened myself at the moment thanks to everyone having babies, including my junkie abusive cousin, and just hitting the 6 year mark. I am truly sorry. What is the blkood thing?

[itsohsoquiet]

I guess some of my comments were a bit thoughtless. I didn't mean to upset anyone. just very emotional right now

[Ariesgirl]

See, littlewater! I told you TTC makes you mental! And no, Katie, it's not a competition, you're right. But it's very hard not to feel like a loser when people all around you keep getting pregnant.

I hope you get your BFP soon x

[OracleInaCoracle]

Noone is saying you should apologise for being upset ffs, I took exception to you saying that ttc for 3m is just as bad as ttc for years. It isn'tm its not even in the same league. I've had 13 mcs in the 6y I've been ttc. I refuse to accept that being disappointed after 3 months is the same, because I've been there and know it isn't. It wasn't my or anyones intention to upset you, just to say "come on, its nothing" there's nothing wrong with a reality check

Katielou, no its not a competition, but some empathy (as aries said) goes a long way.

Littlewater, seriously, don't worry. You haven't offended and I hope you get your bfp soon

[InTheSunshine]

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