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Are you spending more this year, less, or the same as usual?

46 replies

Bluewavescrashing · 29/09/2020 20:07

I'm spending less on days out, meeting Santa etc. Presents--not sure yet. More on food probably as we'll be indoors so much!

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RJnomore1 · 30/09/2020 08:48

No parties
No panto
No Christmas market
Probably no shopping and cocktail day with DH (because it will be no fun)
No work and charity lunches
Maybe no family meals out or certainly fewer as it’s not pleasurable at all

I was planning to spend a bit less on presents too so I can see it being a relatively cheap year. I’m going to decorate two bedrooms and the dining room and buy new dining chairs as a result.

It will depend on the prices in the m and S food catalogue though perhaps!

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Equimum · 30/09/2020 09:11

I think it will be similar here. We have booked and paid for a Santa Train as per normal. That was more expensive due to buying a compartment, but is offset by the fact we aren’t going to a panto. We also have tickets for a local outdoor event. Present-wise, we will spend much the same as normal.

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BrowncoatWaffles · 30/09/2020 09:18

I think it'll probably balance out - less on going out but more on food for home and decorations. Presents about the same.

I've started picking up all the food bits that are on offer now (Baileys, tubs of Miniature Heroes and Celebrations etc) that won't be by mid November.

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Mrsfussypants1 · 30/09/2020 09:24

Our spending this year will probably even itself out. Like others not really spending on the ususal run up activities (work do, meals out, weekends away, outfits etc) but i have spent more on presents this year and finally bought family matching pjs for daughter/son in law/grandaughter. Spent the same amount on grandaughters presents as i normally would, but spent alot more on better quality presents for family members and gift cards for Christmas food shopping as some family members have had a tough year this year and there have been a few job losses. We will also be spending more on food due to not eating out this season. On paper it evens itself out.

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iwishiwasonhol · 30/09/2020 09:24

less on going out, presents about the same maybe a bit more as i was thinking more vouchers that i can post, if we are unable to meet up, but more on food as we usually go to family for christmas day, so looks like i will be cooking my first ever christmas dinner

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IdblowJonSnow · 30/09/2020 09:43

Less. We dont spend much on presents or food anyway and otherwise there isny much to spend it on. Kids aren't that into days out so wont miss that but I will! Sad

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LadyCatStark · 30/09/2020 10:44

Less on presents as DS (11) has had all the big ticket presents over the past few years and there’s nothing he really wants or needs this year (obviously he will get presents though 😂).

Less on outings and meals out.

I don’t know on food as we won’t be entertaining but we won’t be eating at other people’s house either. We’ll go high quality and shop at Booths too for a treat (actually we always do our Christmas shop at Booths, we nipped in the other day to get a desert and DS said “isn’t this this Christmas shop?” 😂)

Lots more on decorations as we moved into our beautiful new home this summer and are getting all new Christmas decorations and outdoor ones for the first time 🥰.

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ComicePear · 30/09/2020 10:46

Less.

We would usually host 15 for dinner on Xmas day - that's unlikely to go ahead.

Lots of social nights out in December probably won't be happening this year.

Same as usual on presents.

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BiddyPop · 30/09/2020 11:24

Probably less overall.

Socialising will definitely be less - we don't go mad but there are usually Section lunch, Division Pizza Night, Office party and a few Friends at work Lunches/Dinners for me, and similar for DH - none of those will happen this year.

Decorations etc - I work in the city centre, and usually am tempted by the shops on my lunchbreak. So that is reduced this year (I have more than enough....).

Presents - I still need to have presents for the same number, but I have been crafting to keep myself busy during lockdown etc, and mostly using up my stash of materials rather than buying new materials, so that will save me some money. But I haven't been out to the summer sales (when I tended to get a good few things) or general shops so whatever I do buy will likely be higher than normal prices. And we don't know what to get DD yet (teen, with very limited wants but those tend to be expensive). And I don't know for DH either - last year I had a Christmas Eve frantic purchase which was ££ but he loved, but I prefer to be better organised. So it may be around the same or slightly less.

Food - definitely more. Just because we will all be home more, and want to cook more than usual, and can't go out like most years. So as well as the actual turkey dinner and usual meals, we will probably do more elaborate dinners and more nice snacks than usual over the holiday period. And I may go more for convenience items, and special treats, than usual. Possibly more on alcohol also, to have something nice to look forward to (quality not quantity), and that we might be sitting reading books which will allow a quiet afternoon glass more than normal etc.

I don't tend to get fancy outfits every year - DD doesn't "do" naice clothes, so clean jeans and a nice top is really good (last year, I think she was in sports leggings with a nice top....). I have plenty I can re-wear, as has DH. But a new pair of PJs for winter is an essential for everyone each Christmas, and this year probably even more so. So the same.

And I will spend more on entertainment - at least 1 new board game, possibly a jigsaw, and definitely on books and magazines/annuals for us all.

Oh, and heating and electricity bills will be up too, as we are home more and doing more decorating, having tree lights on longer etc.

But travel costs will likely be down, as I am very uncertain about the potential for us to travel to see our families over the holiday period. Definitely no rental of a cottage cost (if we go "down home" for Christmas itself, it's the 1 time of year we stay independent - just to cope with both families and their demands for our time and the chaos in both houses!). But I think even the annual New Year's family gathering is in severe doubt. (The corollary of that, is that I'm likely to spend a lot more on postage/courier to get gifts to family as we won't see them).

Overall, I think that adds up to probably spending a fair bit less overall, but some categories will be more than usual and they are probably the ones that are more hidden in my normal budgeting (absorbed into everyday expenses - not part of "Christmas" budget).

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Thehollyandtheirony · 30/09/2020 11:51

Overall we will spend less.
We usually travel home (overseas) to visit the families but we won’t be going this year. So no flights/ tunnel/ fuel/ hotel en route, holiday cottage depending on who we visit, etc.
We will spend a lot more on food and treats at home but it won’t come close.

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merrygoround51 · 30/09/2020 11:58

Same on presents but much less on entertaining and going out to restaurants and the associated costs like new clothes etc

Over the last number of christmases I have had a total of around 16 different nights or days out or people coming to us over December and I can only see Christmas Day and Boxing Day happening this year.

This means far less taxis, outfits etc

Much less fun though which makes me so sad as I adore Christmas

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SadiePurple · 30/09/2020 15:37

I'm going to spend more on presents, I feel like everyone needs cheering up and financially I'm able to splash out.
We'll be saving a heap of money by not going to Christmas markets, gigs and parties, and also buying less food as not expected to cater for guests.

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AdventCaroline · 30/09/2020 15:56

Less on food, we hosted last year, and were catering for 11 people for several days.
Just our family this year, but we may buy a few more luxuries for the Christmas table to make up for being alone.

Presents probably similar.

Hopefully we can still have some trips out in December.

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Iseeyoulookingatme · 30/09/2020 16:14

I'll be spending less as no days out and we won't be visiting Father Christmas. Less on food and booze as we probably won't be able to have people over. I normally get a big turkey from Marks and Spencer but my dh is a vegetarian and it would only be me and ds eating meat so I'll get a chicken instead. I will get alcohol but no where as near as much as normal and I'm cutting back on chocolate and sweets for ds as last year he barely touched them so I had to eat them. I might spend a bit more on presents for my ds though and get some Christmas decorations for the garden.

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Lazysundayafternoons · 30/09/2020 16:21

More this year, only because i started saving monthly for Christmas this year (for the first year ever) so actually had money set aside to spend for Christmas.
That said, I'm only buying useful gifts that will be used.
Will probably buy a freezer to put a Turkey into as who knows what things will be like in December.

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FilthyforFirth · 30/09/2020 16:26

Probably less overall. I have started and nearly finished shopping and have found so many bargains I am definitely 'down'. However, I am spending more on parents/grandparents who have had a terrible year so that may even out.

We will be doing less days out for covid reasons and I am also due mid Nov so would be a bit more restricted anyway. Going to my dads for dinner (we will be 6 I refuse to count my 4 week old) so not a lot on food. We normally host a big party at ours which costs a small fortune which we defo cant do.

Overall I think it will be much less. I will have close to £80 in clubcard vouchers which usually go towards food and drink for party which is now free as well so will see what final presents I can get from there without using the Christmas account.

I may go overboard on decorations though!

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HEYAhhhhhhhhh · 30/09/2020 17:09

Very similar to me & my sibling. I'm christmas day & he's boxing day. Madness huh.

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LadyofMisrule · 30/09/2020 19:27

Less. No Santa visits, no drinks-and-nibbles parties, no extra guests at Xmas, no NYE party, no works Xmas lunches, no panto.

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anyoldname76 · 30/09/2020 19:46

We're spending more on presents but less on activities, so it probably evens out

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nevermorelenore · 30/09/2020 20:17

Less. It's actually amazing the amount of stuff that you do in the run up to Xmas that adds up: panto, xmas parties, afternoon tea, trip to London to see the lights, xmas fete and school events. Plus no new partywear, probably won't bother with pre-xmas beauty treaments etc as much.

We also usually go away for a couple of nights on 27th or around then, as it stops us getting the post-Xmas blues. Probably won't happen this year.

I imagine presents and food about the same though. Maybe a little more, as we'll be at home more often and it'll cheer us up! Plus the annual santa trip if we can find anywhere to go.

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sqirrelfriends · 30/09/2020 21:18

Probably about the same but more on physical stuff as we will be stuck inside and will have to entertain ourselves somehow.

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