Hi, I would just like to share my daughter's experience too, age 5
Back in July, I took her to opticians for eye test, no concerns just thought I would get her checked. We discovered then that she had a lazy left eye, I felt so awful when she couldn't read the letters, I thought she was messing around to start with :-( I was told that she was a 3.5 and 5.75 and needed glasses straight away, and was referred to hospital to discuss further options.
When I got home I was so upset that I had no idea, but nor had her nursery teachers or anybody else around us. Children obviously don't realise what is 'normal' and so don't say anything. I kept having so many sleepless nights about how terrible a mother I was....now months on I realise there are so many children with the same condition, but you don't realise that at the time, you think it's just you!
Anyway she went to the hospital and was started with patching straight away, 6hrs a day. The first day she just kept crying saying she couldn't see. Luckily for us all, she was at nursery that day, which took her mind off it, and when she got there she was fine, she obviously struggled to start with, but coped really well.....again it was me who cried as I got to nursery to drop her off, and the children were asking why she had a patch, but they weren't being nasty, just interested. I discovered meyepatch.co.uk who do patches that fit over the glasses (rather than sticky ones which made her sore after just 2 days) so she now proudly wears her Tinkerbell one, and is the envy of her classmates!!
She had her next hospital appointment 2 months later, where she had improved by 2 lines, which I was really pleased with (but the orthopist had noticed she kept trying to peek looking over her patch!) So got her glasses adjusted slightly and she stopped that.
Then this week she had another appointment (3 months later) where she improved another 1.5 lines. So they are really pleased with her progress, she has another 3 lines to go now to be equal to her good eye.
So if anyone is worried like I was, please try not to, patching really seems to be helping, and there is certainly no need to worry about bullying :)
I do have a couple of questions though if you can help please?
Is it likely that she will acheive the 3 line difference?
Will her eyesight get worse again once patching stops?
Should I ask about vision therapy, would this help even further?
Is her sight in her 'good eye' being made worse by patching?
Do you think 6 hrs a day is too much? I read that 2hrs is now as good as 6+ ?