Hi everyone
I’m FTM and 24 weeks pregnant. I have my midwife appointment tomorrow and wondering if it is the right time to bring up my options of maybe having an elective c section.
I have anxiety and depression (no medication for a year as I’ve been trying to manage it myself). In the last month or so my depression has got to a really bad point. I’ve been so anxious all the way through my pregnancy due to so many friends having losses and things go wrong in their pregnancies. My mental health is not in a great place and I am just getting by.
I also have vaginismus. Well my doctor said I probably had it and referred me to the Gynae department a few years ago but I never went as I didn’t want to go through the trauma of internal examinations. Ive only ever had one successful smear test and have always had painful sex. The thought of maybe ending up having an induction or a natural birth that doesn’t go to plan is filling me with dread and I’m worried about my mental state if things don’t go to plan once the baby is here.
I know this all sounds really pathetic but do I have a reason to try and push for an elective c section or should I just try and get on with everything? I feel like I’ll not be able to stand up for myself if midwife tells me I’m not suitable for a c section anyway.
Thank you if anyone listens to my long rambling post.
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Elective C Section / depression / vaginismus
Lady929 · 19/01/2022 07:36
DogsAndGin · 08/05/2022 16:35
You don’t need a reason for a ELCS OP.
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