Have only skimmed through other people's posts, but i had a crash cs for dd a year ago, and I really hadn't thought it would ever happen to me.
30 hours of labour with gas and air, little to no progress, had just agreed to epidural and had it put in when dd's heartrate dropped and had to go to surgery immediately.
Obviously I was very tired: I'd been up for 3 days, but I still was aware of what was happening and able to ask questions. It was very dramatic; being wheeled through a corridor like on ER and people shouting "we've got 20 minutes, max!" but like other people said, it's a relief in the end, and it wasn't scary. They were very good, very calm, very quick and I didn't have time to feel scared. Dh was right there beside me and they talked me through it. They put a screen up so you don't see anything, if you're worried about the gory aspect of it.
It's absolutely bizarre that while they anaesthetize(sp?) the area to numb pain, it doesn't actually numb sensation, so you can actually feel them rummaging around inside you!...perhaps that's a little more than you wanted to know, but it didn't hurt, it was just strange, like someone pulling washing out of the washing machine!
The only thing I would advise, if it's important to you, is to ask them to lower the screen when baby is actually coming out. I didn't ask them to do this, and spent the first few days wondering if she was really my baby because I hadn't seen her come out.
As for recovery, you have to wear horrid support tights for 3 days and get extra injections, but i was up and about by the following evening and fine after a week or so.
For me, I think it was hard that I had to stay in hospital longer than I'd planned: it's a strange world and strange to spend the first days as a mother in such a weird environment with crap food, but it wasn't that bad. (The views at St Thomas' are amazing!)
Sorry for mammoth post. i've never posted my birth story on mn before, so sorry for using your thread to do it!