I'm writing my DH a bullet-point list of 'instructions' for what he needs to do/how he can help during birth. From trivial (feed me jelly babies!) through to important medical stuff (if I have an EMCS make sure they remember that...).
Here's my headings so far - what would you add?
- packing (double check have got maternity notes etc).
- food drink and comfort (reminder of what's in hospital bag to feed me, help me stay cool etc)
- coping (what he can do to help me keep calm - breathing/hypnobirthing stuff etc)
- advocacy (key stuff from the birth plan he should make a fuss about to HCPs if needed).