"I think your last comment to Shagmund was uncalled for. None of what she has written gives me the impression she thinks CS is a terrible option"
I think there's a name for this sort of argument tactic - 'poisoning the well' or something. Keep ascribing false opinions to someone, and then arguing against them. Really - there's no need for it and it spoils a thread.
"This statement seems to imply that VB can only cause serious damage if it ends in a CS which is laughable"
I have acknowledged Peace, that a percentage of forceps and ventouse end with the mother experiencing serious perineal damage. I was thinking more along the lines of hysterectomy, death, thrombo-embolisms - all more common with c/s. As is a mother ending up needing treatment in an ICU. It's that I was thinking of.
"Secondly, don't discount the reasons behind the practice of defensive medicine. In the USA, there has been no record of a doctor being sued for performing a CS. "
No. And the US has one of the highest maternal death rates in the developed world. And one of the highest c/s rates. 
"You cannot give anyone an assurance which side she will be on, so it's best to leave people to make their own choices"
But YOU seem to be the making a case for the banning of forceps! It's you who appears to be arguing for the restriction of maternal choice, not me!
"I am proposing that women should make an effort to research the possibilities well in advance so that they know what they will consent to"
And I would argue that it's almost impossible to do this in a truly meaningful way prior to delivery, because the risks associated with the use of forceps vary so significantly depending on the unique events of the birth. For some women forceps will cause significantly less harm than a c/s. For some more. But you can't know until it happens.
"but the fact remains that there is a fixed set of risks associated with each procedure"
Well this simply isn't true! The risks associated with mid cavity forceps delivery for a woman with a BMI of 36 will be different from the risks for a slender woman whose baby is lower down in the birth canal and needs less rotation. There are many, many variables which impact on the safety of surgical and assisted delivery.
By the way - I do wish you'd stop lumping ventouse and forceps in together as though they're one and the same thing. They're not!
"If I had to hazard a guess I'd say you were badly affected by your forceps birth contrary to what you claim. Your attempt now is to convince yourself and others, that a CS is a terrible option and you would have been worse off after one."
That's a bit uncalled for isn't it? I'm quite happy to admit that my forceps delivery did a fair degree of perineal damage. In my case it was complicated by the fact that my first baby was 9 and a half pounds. Luckily it hasn't affected my quality of life since in a way which makes me carry serious regrets about it. What reconciled me to it most of all was the fact that I went on to have two more babies, the second of which was a homebirth, which was an amazing, wonderful experience that I wouldn't have missed out on for all the world. I probably wouldn't have gone for a VBAC at home had I had a first c/s because I also had gestational diabetes and was carrying a very large baby (11lbs). I probably would have ended up with a repeat c/s, and then who knows if I would have even gone on to have a third pregnancy after that.
Besides which - I've said nothing to support your assertion that I believe c/s is 'terrible'. So maybe you could stop repeating this accusation.