My son is 13 , he does not have an adhd diagnosis as able to mask infront of a professional for a few minutes but everyone who meets him including all teachers at 6 different educational settings all believe he has adhd and treat him accordingly. Hes on the sen register and has a classroom support plan. When he was younger he was hyperactive but as he's got older that side has got better.
He's more inattentive and impulsive. He acts like he has lots of confidence and likes to be centre of attention (dopamine boost I presume)
But at home he's a different person. He's sensitive, overly worries about everything, anxious and now old checking cups, plates, cutlery before he uses them etc.
The anxiety mainly started during covid, fear of germs etc turned into ocd.
He had hysterical throat where he felt he couldn't Swallow for for about 6 months. He ate morsals of food and lost a lot of weight. Doctors reassured him his throat was fine.
That passed. Now it's debilitating symptoms of anxiety. It comes in waves multiple times a day. He feels the floor is moving. He feels unsteady. He feels like his tongue is swelling, his throat is closing, all the usual panick attack symptoms but this is multiple times a day. I've noticed he's started avoiding doing things and going to places where he has experienced an anxiety attack.
We went for a meal last night, he had to leave and go outside/the barbers/ flying is a bad one/ long car journeys/any kind of appointment dentist/doctor/ school trip.
If he has a genuine illness or small injury he massively panicks and catastrosizes then has massive panic attacks.
Its getting worse all the time and affecting not just him but the whole family.
What do I do? I'm reluctant to use cahms as they were useless last time and the waiting list is long. He needs help NOW.
He's had talking therapies before but because of the type of adhd he has he can't retain the information or put it into practice when the panic is happening . I think he needs medication but I presume he's too young. What do we do?
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Child mental health
How do I get quick help for my son, 13, terrible anxiety, ocd, adhd completely debilitating
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Daffodildreams40 · 28/03/2024 09:01
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28/03/2024 09:13
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