I was abused by my dad when I was younger which I am now facing and having therapy for. My children (aged 7) have always had contact up until now as I had not told anyone (which I now have, including telling my mom and him that I remember).
neither myself nor my husband feel comfortable with them seeing my dad any longer. We put rules in place as soon as I disclosed the information to my mom where he was not allowed to be left alone with the kids, not allowed to assist with showering, toileting etc.
as I say, now I realise that I do not trust him at all and no longer want to the risk to the girls as I’m finally seeing clearly.
how do I tell my kids they are no longer going to see him? My mom is remaining with him (her choice) and we have said she can continue to see us and them but he must not be around.
my girls lost their other man a couple of years ago which hit them hard.
any advice in explaining it to my kids would be appreciated as I’m completely at a loss.
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Child mental health
How to tell my 7 year old
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helpedNeeded · 14/03/2024 18:48
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