Hiya,
Where to start...
About 4 weeks ago my 12, nearly 13 yr old DD started confessing about things that she did 1,2,3,4 years ago that were super tame, nothing bad at all.
I listened each time and reassured her that it was okay.
Now for the past week she has been getting really distressed by bad thoughts and confessing them too, she is most upset by the ones about me (I thought you were fat) etc and is becoming inconsolable about "what if I think they are true".
This one this morning was "in that photo of you on the wall I thought you looked.." and then burst into tears because I was heavier in the photo and she felt horrible for noticing it
She is terrified of growing up and has been getting stressed about this recently and I think this may have triggered them but I am really hoping another parent could share their experience of this and maybe reassure me too because it is so awful watching her go through it.
She is usually the most easygoing, cheerful, loving girl and its literally like a switch has gone on.
Thank you for reading.
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Child mental health
DD having "bad thoughts"
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LittleLilacs14 · 25/02/2024 23:06
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26/02/2024 09:56
LittleLilacs14 · 26/02/2024 01:51
monkeyadja Thanks for your reply, could I ask you when you had similar "bad thoughts" how did it make you feel? My daughter feels that she's always trying to think of a bad thought because she feels guilty.
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