DD is in year 8 and since Christmas has suffered with bad anxiety that is now reached the point where she is unable to go to school as she panics at being in the classroom.
She's not been for over 3 weeks. School aren't being supportive (in fact we've not really heard from them at all!).
History of bullying in year 7 and increasing anxiety since then (worrying about girls talking about her behind her back, or being the victim of silly nonsense in the classroom such as stealing her pen off the table when her back is turned, squirting her with their water bottles etc).
She's also withdrawing from extra curricular activities (sports, Guides, music) saying that she just doesn't want to go anywhere anymore.
Seems fairly ok at home - will watch TV, play PlayStation with siblings etc. Slightly less keen on days out with all of us as feels less safe than at home.
GP won't see her (doesn't think it's necessary) but has provided a note to school diagnosing anxiety and asking school to work with us to get her back in. School say if she can't go to lessons, they don't want her in school (we were hoping for some sort of intervention whereby she could work alone in learning resource centre when she's overwhelmed and slowly work towards returning to lessons but they've said no).
We self-referred her for counselling back in the autumn but are still waiting.
Where do we go from here? Home school isn't an option - we're not well off so DH and I need to work. Any ideas to get school to help or even just ideas of how we can help with the anxiety?
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Child mental health
DD(13) and increasing anxiety
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heatherwithapee · 01/02/2024 19:56
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