My son is 14, he's been close friends with a girl for about a year and boyfriend/girlfriend for about 6 months. They have a nice positive relationship, they don't live in each other pockets and have other interests and friends.
I've only met her a few times and she seems a really nice girl. I know of her family and they seem like a nice family, although I have not met them.
My son has come to me tonight in tears, crying that she's told him she hates herself and that she's going to harm herself. Although he says she has said she won't do it tonight.
He had recently found out that she had previously self harmed. He doesn't know why she does this, she isn't being bullied at school and says there are no issues at home. There was talk of her seeing a therapist but this has not happened.
He says that she has spoken to her mum and dad about it before and her dad just shouted at her. (Obviously I know that this is only one side of the story)
I'm concerned for the girl but I'm also concerned for my son and the impact this will have/is having on him. He should not have to be dealing with his at 14.
He's trapped between, keeping her confidence and protecting her.
Does anyone have any advice on supporting her and for me to support him also.
Thanks in advance.
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spongebunnyfatpants · 18/12/2022 23:01
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