We are literally at the end of our tether now. Our 10 year old girl has always enjoyed school, loved it in fact. She is intelligent and popular and a very happy little girl.
A few months ago she had a few issues with a friend in her class and she was basically being bullied, she stood up to her, she was strong and did all the right things and we were very proud of her. Since then she has been suffering from a bit of anxiety, worrying a lot about things a 10 year old shouldn't be worrying about and in particular going to school. Once she is there she has a good day, she always comes out happy and tells us about all the things she done that day. The problem is getting her there.
She can be fine all morning, she can be fine on the walk to school but as we get to the gates, it starts. To the point where she is having a panic attack and a full meltdown. We have spoken to the school and they have provisions in place, eg. a teacher meets us at the door and takes her to an "oasis" room where its quiet and she can read or whatever she wants to do. This hand over has now resorted into her screaming and crying, absolutely terrified and the handover is unbearable. I leave for work before school time and its left to her mum to go through this awful rigmarole each morning. I don't know how long we can carry on like this, I almost feel as though my wife is going to have a nervous breakdown.
We have been to the Dr's who were not overly concerned. We have another appointment with them and another with the school and we are going to insist on a CAHMS referral.
I don't know what else to do, I feel completely helpless. Has anybody got any advice on how to handle this?
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Child mental health
10 Year old terrified of going into school
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beans82 · 01/07/2019 09:49
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