Daughter aged 14 has mental health issue that makes it terrifying for her to stay away from home. My h and i had an event we needed to go to and we arranged for her to stay with her nan.... Knowing it would be hard for her but knowing she would be safe. After telling her about it she had a huge meltdown accusing us of child abuse for forcing her to do something that she is scared to death of. I gave in. I put her ahead of my h and told him to go alone. He is so disappointedin me. I thought she could handle it but she really can't. She is having therapy but it isn't working yet. She isn't ready. I feel awful. He isn't talking to me and I feel angry at her when it isn't her fault. The problem is misophonia and she is very high on the scale and cannot sleep anywhere but at home. Thanks for listening.
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