Advice please, my Mum has signed up to monthly direct debits with some charities - for between £3 to £20 a month - over a year this mounts up hugely.
I spoke to her bank and they said they are unable to help - I would have to phone them with my mum present to see if there were any recent direct debits. But, even if I do this monthly, the first payment could have gone out already. If that month she signed up to 5 then 5 payments would have gone out already.
Is there something I can do to help her so this doesn't happen?
How do you stop your parent from signing up to these? She forgets
(dementia?) as we have had lots of chats about this. She was scammed badly a few years ago so it is a very sensitive area for her.
Thank you for your help and advice. I am desperate.
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My 80 year old Mum keeps signing up to charities at the supermarket.
Seagullz · 11/08/2023 11:42
Comedycook · 11/08/2023 12:30
I'd make a complaint to every charity that she has signed up to.
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Wolfpa · 11/08/2023 12:28
You say the dementia hasn’t been formally diagnosed but does your mum retain mental capacity? If she doesn’t understand the implications of signing up for charities it is unlikely that she will understand the implications of signing the Power of Attorney forms. If this is the case it is too late for a Power of Attorney and you would need to apply for a court of protection order. Initially you may be best off going into your mums back to get things sorted.
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