Dd is struggling. She has always found school hard, both social and academic side of things. She has been bullied since she was five but is hugely resilient. Obviously I have done whatever I can. I suspect she has traits of Asd although she masks amazingly.
Dd is now in year 10 and in the lowest group for all sciences and maths. The groups are very reluctant to learn which frustrates dd. Lessons are full of disruption.
Dd has a couple of good friends and is in a group of about 8. Last month she found out that all of them went to a party without her and she was devastated. She’s struggled ever since. She has also just found out that she will not be a prefect in year 11. All of her friends have been given a role. She is also bullied daily with mean comments - nothing bad enough for school to address but just constant low grade verbal bullying day in day out.
Her grades are very low and even lower now she is in the lowest sets for so many. She is set to do foundation in everything even though she got some grade 6s in science. I feel her cards are numbered and she can’t succeed in this situation.
Dd is changing before my eyes. She has lost her spark, mumbling and not talking clearly any more and doesn’t want to do her usual hobbies.
Year 10 and 11 are so important. But I can’t help feeling she would be better off at home revising from now on until next summer. She doesn’t learn much at school in her current groups.
Has anyone else been in this situation? We get on well with school and I have two other children there. Would they agree to flexi-schooling? Could I allow her to school from home but stay with them? I can’t afford to pay for all her exams and really don’t know what to do. I do know it’s crunch time though.
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Nowornevernow · 03/03/2024 14:13
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