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YourLocal · 10/02/2024 20:49

Hey y’all ! DD has been in a group of friends since the beginning of year 4 (2 years ago) and has recently in January had a new girl join her clang who has the same name. My DD came home saying on the first day back from Christmas that she was lovely. Next day was saying she was ignoring her and leaving her out at break. Then it came consistent that whenever she was there she was either being yelled at for something she hadn’t done or being left out by the same child. end of January she was giving out invites for her party with the rest of her group going but not my child. She’d came home crying the next day because she’d asked why is all of the rest invited but me and she said she didn’t like her because she wanted to be the one and only Olivia and then my Olivia said are you trying to replace me and she told my daughter to F off!! The girl has ADHD but there’s no reason for swearing and leaving my daughter out! Apparently the 4 other girls don’t really say much when other Olivia is around about mine but when other girl isn’t there they just say to mine that they love her which is cute but Olivia needs to change. I’m horrified the girl has been showing off all over her WhatsApp status as well. I’m absolutely had it with this girl! Why would a kid have beef with mine because they have the same name?! What should I do next?

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10ThousandSpoons · 10/02/2024 21:03

A year 6 shouldn't be having WhatsApp.

But anyway. Have you spoken to the school?

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YourLocal · 10/02/2024 21:09

10ThousandSpoons · 10/02/2024 21:03

A year 6 shouldn't be having WhatsApp.

But anyway. Have you spoken to the school?

I’ve let my kids have WhatsApp at January year 6 but only to message classmates, me and my husband and siblings. I’ve already told the teachers about 2 weeks after she joined and said that she was being left out and spoke to the girl but obviously didn’t listen nor care

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10ThousandSpoons · 10/02/2024 22:31

YourLocal · 10/02/2024 21:09

I’ve let my kids have WhatsApp at January year 6 but only to message classmates, me and my husband and siblings. I’ve already told the teachers about 2 weeks after she joined and said that she was being left out and spoke to the girl but obviously didn’t listen nor care

Not a good idea if it's being used to bully

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idontlikealdi · 10/02/2024 22:37

CBA to read that wall of text but your kids is too young

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