Hi all,
My son is in year 9 and has had nothing but problems at school since year 7.
In year 7 he was bullied by a particular boy who then went on to grope him inappropriately. This was reported to school and the school called the police. The police did nothing and even said 'boys will be boys' and said the boy was autistic so they couldn't do anything. The school said they wouldn't exclude him but would remove him from his classes, which they did after nearly a month!!!
Then year 8 came and the issues with first boy stopped but two other boys started to bully him, name calling, using racist language based on the colour of his skin, we are white so apparently it doesn't matter. Nothing was done. They've pushed and shoved him, called his family names etc. School have put them in isolation once and suspended one for 2 days but it hasn't stopped them, if anything since year 9 started it's got worse. To top it all off, the boy who sexually assaulted my son in year 7 is now in the same classss as my son too and now he's starting. He's tried spraying my son in the face with things and pushes him to the floor, takes his things and all the head of year has said to my son when he's reported it is 'boys are hyper'. I'm sick of this mentality and lack of dealing with it. We've tried to get him into another school but places are scarce and my son doesn't want to move as he has a few friends at current school.
It is now starting to affect his mental health (he had been very resilient until recently) and he now won't attend after school clubs and cried in the car on the way home yesterday.
We are having a meeting with school again, to which I know nothing will be done at the end of the day. Other than going to governors and threatening to go to the papers is there anything else I can say/do? Thanks
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GEK1983 · 21/09/2023 08:38
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