I'm pregnant with my second baby and getting really nervous about breastfeeding. In my first pregnancy, I couldn't wait to breastfeed! At the beginning, it was fine - no problems with the latch, etc. However, we introduced a bottle after a few weeks and I wasn't careful enough with timings etc, so ended up with recurring mastitis and an abscess so bad that it needed to be drained and padded.
I persisted, however, and then had to deal with the baby preferring the bottle over the boob and only feeding with a nipple shield for a few months. I also experienced D-MER, or dysphoric milk ejection reflex, which was basically this surge of anxiety and doom every time I fed. On top of that, 4 months in, I started experiencing debilitating bouts of extreme fatigue (even though baby was a good sleeper). This continued on and off until I finally stopped breastfeeding completely at 12 months. It's only now that I realise it was probably down to breastfeeding.
With this baby, I want to breastfeed but I'm also terrified of all these problems coming back. I'm also scared that they'll refuse a bottle, and I'll be tied into exclusive breastfeeding for the first year, even if it makes me feel really poorly again, so I am wondering whether to commit to mixed feeding from the start (but this also makes me feel guilty!). Does anyone have any advice on how to tackle these feelings? And on how to make a plan for a smoother feeding journey? Thank you!
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Second pregnancy and really nervous about breastfeeding
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mylittkeitalianhome · 18/03/2024 15:19
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