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Join Christos Tsiolkas to talk about THE SLAP - our March Book of the Month - on Weds 23 March, 8-9pm

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TillyBookClub · 17/02/2011 11:54

Our March Book of the Month has inflamed critics, readers and journalists across the world. The Slap by Christos Tsiolkas, longlisted for the Man Booker Prize and winner of the Commonwealth Writers Prize, is also a Top Ten bestseller in the UK, Australia and Canada. A zeitgeist-capturing exploration of multiculturalism and the limitations of liberal values, it will definitely provoke some strong reactions...

Atlantic books are offering 100 copies of The Slap to Mumsnetters. To bag your copy before they run out, please email [email protected] with your full postal address and "Mumsnet The Slap offer" in the email subject line.

We'll post on this thread once the copies have all been sent out but if you're not lucky enough to bag a free copy, buy it here instead.

We are delighted that Christos will be joining us on Wednesday 23 March, 8-9 pm, for the bookclub discussion - look forward to seeing you all there...

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KiwiKat · 20/02/2011 12:46

I got this out of the library some months ago, and my librarian friend said, as he placed it in my hot little hands, "it will be interesting to hear what you think of it - most people don't like it". My first thought was "fools - they probably don't 'get' it", and was confident that I would be different.

Sadly I didn't like it either, probably because there was such a strong male voice shaping even the female characters. The misogyny was totally appropriate to the setting and the story, and true of the group of people he was writing about, but the failure of the women to be convincing as characters really let it down.

IMHO.

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gaelicsheep · 20/02/2011 14:23

It's starting to sound like an excellent choice for the book club actually, given the debate already.

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noddyholder · 20/02/2011 14:49

I really enjoyed this book as did both my book groups

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Jajas · 20/02/2011 19:55

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gaelicsheep · 20/02/2011 20:31

I'll say one thing for this book, which is I did manage to finish it. Unlike the nonsensical tripe that is The Time Traveller's Wife.

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Jajas · 20/02/2011 22:07

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mssjk · 21/02/2011 10:14

I didn't like most of the characters either, but have to say I found the book quite thought-provoking. I don't think that empathy with the characters is a measure of the worth of a book. I do agree that it was obnoxious at times, but I think this was deliberate (well, I hope so, anyway).

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noddyholder · 21/02/2011 18:27

I agree mss you do not have to like them.I thought they were an interesting mix and you meet people that make you bristle every day!There were so many great discussions in our book group though and for that I commend it.

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Jajas · 21/02/2011 21:24

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defineme · 22/02/2011 13:24

I think you should Jajas!
I think the characters were shallow, but that was a reflection of their society though not the book?
Suggesting something is boring because it's offensive is saying that the offensive stuff is gratuitous isn't it? I thought, again, that the offensiveness was an element of the characterization?

I really wish I was about for this discussion and I will try and think of a question!

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lockets · 22/02/2011 18:20

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poppygolucky · 23/02/2011 12:15

I loved this book - everyone else I know hated it!
The redemption for me came through the younger characters - perhaps even an element of hope? I agree the middle generation characters were entirely unsympathetic but I think the author was unsympathetic towards them too. We are meant to see them as entirely flawed parents, many of them reeling from their own upringings and sense of what constitutes 'family'. Add to that the issues of race, social class, sexuality - even if you didn't like this book, at least it provokes debate.
One thing I would say is it is graphic in terms of depicting sex and drug-taking but not gratuitous. I didn't feel it was unrealistic or titillating: unfortunately some men and women do approach sex and drugs in this way, and to ignore that is naive.
Anyway I really look forward to this discussion!

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Heathcliffscathy · 24/02/2011 13:14

Mayornaze couldn't agree more...did find it diverting though and the fact that the most sympathetic character by far was a woman (can't remember name, the young girl vet assistant) closely followed by anoush (was that her name? The older writer) means that the book can't be totally written off as a piece of misogynistic twad.

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DontWorryBaby · 24/02/2011 13:43

Has anyone had their free copy yet?

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MayorNaze · 24/02/2011 18:34

KiwiKat

"...probably because there was such a strong male voice shaping even the female characters. The misogyny was totally appropriate to the setting and the story, and true of the group of people he was writing about, but the failure of the women to be convincing as characters really let it down."

yes - i do agree about the misogyny actually, and definitely about the portrayal of women by a male writer

has anyone read much Zadie Smith? she also deals with race/sex/immigration/social class but very differently, no?

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Jajas · 24/02/2011 22:34

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thunderbird69 · 26/02/2011 12:24

If I had been picked to get a copy would I have received an email confirmation? or should I have received it by now?

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kerala · 27/02/2011 20:49

Agree Jajas. Horrid misogynistic rubbish and depressing book. Ignore it is my advice, or read "We Had it so good" by Linda Grant which is also recently out but is actually worth reading.

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thunderbird69 · 28/02/2011 13:33

Received an email now saying the books are being sent out this week - having read the comments on here, I'm not exactly looking orward to reading it now!

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Matildathebrave · 28/02/2011 13:57

I have also just had an email saying my book will be sent out this week.

From reading the comments above and also on Amazon it seems a strange choice as not a very well liked book by most of you.

Well, I will give it a go but won't force myself to read it if it's really that bad!

I love Room, was one of the best books I've read in a while. Currently reading House Rules by Jodi Picoult which is brilliant so far.

Books should be enjoyable so am hoping I will enjoy the Slap ............

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grumpypants · 28/02/2011 15:57

House Rules really good but i just got so fed up with them not asking him - seemed very convoluted! loved the slap.

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Blatherskite · 28/02/2011 15:58

Loved Room but like a lot on here, the Amazon reviews put me off this book. Decided I'd apply for a free copy and read it if I got one....and I did :)

Looking forward to reading it now and coming back to talk about it.

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chocoholic · 28/02/2011 17:31

Ooh, I got one too.
Looking forward to starting it now to see what is so hateful about it. Smile

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