My mother in law passed away last Friday and was seen by two doctors as per the process but the cause of death certificate hasn't been done.
We've been told we can't book an appointment with the registrar until the doctors cause of death form is sent over, processed by the registrars office 'alongside their other workload' and they send us a link to book an appointment for goodness knows when. They won't book us in for next week ready, they say we can't do it
The doctor who is supposed to be doing the certificate isn't working until tomorrow, and in fact we've never heard of them. And it's a different story to the one we got told this morning.
Might sound like I am stressing over nothing, but we are going on holiday next Friday, and with the Friday/Monday bank holiday coming up that means we have 6 working days left to get everything sorted. We can't finalise multiple things without the death certificate. Pretty sure we can't just go away and not register the death either? Then there's the funeral arrangements.
My husband is an only child, from a tiny family, his dad is deceased. There isn't really anyone else to register it. There's a cousin who won't be able to do it as he's pretty much housebound.
As for the holiday - my goodness do we need it. The past 2 years have been hell on earth. My mother in law was sectioned under the mental health act after causing a huge amount of anguish for us, was detained in a psychiatric hospital and then was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and all the awfulness that involves. We are mentally on our knees.
Can a doctor really take 5 days to get around to sending the form across?! How long does it typically taken then to get into the registrars? They wouldn't give us a timescale. Who else can register a death? I've tried googling it but the answers are so vague to be totally unhelpful.