My db died last week, only a short time after he learned that he was terminally ill. He wanted to make things easier for our parents so decided to make a will. He was unmarried, childless and long term unemployed due to a bad accident though the powers to be had decided he was fit to work.
Anyway he initially wanted to leave me, his only sibling everything but I asked him to leave it to our parents as I am divorced ( ex dh still lives with me and refuses to do a financial settlement - he is also unemployed) and we are on universal credit. I work about 30 hours a week but that varies as it's a zero hour contract. One dc is still at school and we also have 3 adult dc. I thought it would complicate matters. I am 8 years from retirement.
He wasn't really well enough to make anything but a basic will and he only signed it a week before his death. Db had a small terrace house and I'm not really sure as we don't know the value of his private pension but his estate will probably be in the region of £300k.
Obviously we would so much rather he was still with us but dm is talking about giving me and my 4dc money from the estate after probate is granted. I'm just a bit worried that this might end up as part of their estate if they don't survive 7 years. They are in their 80s and I don't know but I would imagine their estate would be about £700k without db's. I was wondering if it would be wise to do a variation of the will to divide the monies equally between my parents and my 4dc. My parents do not have a will.
Sorry for the long winded post, just wanted some advice.