I'm feeling at my wit's end with 5yo DS after the Christmas holidays. Since being in Year One over the last term we've seen an explosion in rude, cheeky and OTT behaviour. He seems constantly bouncing off the walls, making noise including constant talking gibberish and making up words and saying words 'wrong', constant blowing raspberries and making fart noises, constant referring to people as 'dummy' or 'smelly', repeating things we say back at us, etc. He's always been competitive but it's got to the point where I dread him wanting to play a game because if he doesn't win there is invariably a screaming tantrum with the game being kicked or thrown. There have been a few incidents of silly behaviour at school that his teacher has spoken to him about but he did start behaving again after one incident where he had to miss playtime.
He gets worse under pressure or when you start to tell him off or warn him that he needs to stop or there will be consequences. His behaviour at bedtime had rapidly gone downhill so we started a bedtime star chart which is working but it's his behaviour the rest of the time too! Consequences he receives are time out, loss of TV, loss of bedtime stories, etc. He can be such a lovely little boy but at the moment he seems so relentlessly challenging and I feel like a lot of it is directed at me. I had DS2 last October and I wonder if it is linked in to a new baby in the house, him feeling jealous etc.
Has anyone else struggled with behaviour like this and how to handle it? I find it so hard not to lose it with him and it's been particularly bad over the last two weeks.
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Deterioration in 5yo's behaviour
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ballroompink · 03/01/2018 14:42
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